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Why are guys so mean?

What am I suppose to think if someone that says he is so crazy about you, tells you he's going to call and he doesn't? Should I take it personally or should I just blow it and him off?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    funny - I have heard a lot of guys ask that of women.

    Must be the perspective.

    If you were he, how would you act? If someone does not treat you in the same way that you feel you should be treated - don't waste your time - it will never get better and, mostlikely get worse.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well I think that you suold give him some time to expain himself before you get all mad! just go up to him and ask him why he didn't call he might have a really good reason of y. cuz if you just blow him off and he does have a good reason then you'll feel like and ***! so just give it some time and wait for a answer don't go blowing up in his face!

    Source(s): Been there!
  • 1 decade ago

    If he really does like you and he's mean to you, it's fear of losing control and power and once that is gone a woman can hurt him. So it's a defense mechanism. I'm dated some that were quite grizzly bears in the beginning, but I know that they can be such teddy bears in the end. I usually don't give more than six months and if they don't soften up, I'm done.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should blow him the next time you meet, He will definately stay in touch after that.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Just blow him off. He obviously does not get you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just blow it off LIFE HAPPENS

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell that guy The crazy train left along time ago while you where waiting to hear from him? LOL if hes a younger dude .... Save yourself the hassle Abstinance~~!!!! Lmao Who needs a man anyway..... (lol me ... I do!)

    Source(s): My Sarcaz m And Wanna know something places of my brain
  • 1 decade ago

    For the last time!!!! We aren't mean!!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    thats not mean... its forgetfull

    my question to you is .... if you wanted to talk and he didn't call, why didn't you call him???

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