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my mother is to protective of me and how should i handle this.?

i know im my moms only ddaughter but i dont want any more body-guards and when i try to explian my fellings to her she never understands and she gets all hiped up abouy it.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I used to feel that way too, but now that I am older and have girls of my own, I am the same way. Just think about kids your age that their parents don't care....AT ALL. She is over protecting you because she cares. It is hard to start letting go. Too many bad things happen now days. I live in a town that most children that go to school are living with a family member or are in foster homes. Their parents just left them for someone else to raise. This is over 50% of our school.

  • 1 decade ago

    you don't need to argue with her at all because that will get you nowhere trust me i know LOL!! you need to show her that you are responsible maybe by doing little things around the house or you could try gradually changing what you do like first see if she will let you go to a friend's house then to the movies with a friend then maybe from there go out on a group date with your guy and your friends.and eventually if all goes well then soon enough she will trust you and accept your choices. good luck :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You probably won't understand this, but you are a very lucky young woman to have someone watch over you.

    So many kids are just running loose out there in the cruel world. They get raped, they get kidnapped, they get turned into slaves, they get killed!!!

    You'll be an adult before you know it, and then your problems really get big.

    Hang in there and tough it out. You'll be glad you did. I promise!

    Source(s): life's experiences
  • 1 decade ago

    well

    its your life and i cant comment

    but u know once u also grow old as me

    u would feel one thing

    i wish there was soemone to stop me be proctective about me

    some one who would wake whole night to see that ur fever is down

    someone offer u food without ur telling that u are hungry

    that is what is MOM

    god bless her

    just look into her eyes

    and u get all answers

    :)

    stay good

    regards

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  • 1 decade ago

    If your over 13 then somehow make her understand that its time to start letting you go out more.Show her, don't tell her.

  • 1 decade ago

    that is right, because she knows how lose her virgin in your age. then understand her and live with her as a good girl.

    good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    You suck, you lied about you mom dieing?! WTF

    I cant believe I answered your other question...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    STOP CONTRADICITING YOURSELF!!!

    GAWD.

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