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I went to go see my male interest. He is not my boyfriend but says he considers our relationship monagamous, which is fine by me. Now we were standing outside talking and a female pulls in her car, he says nothing to me and walks over to her. I am standing there for 7 minutes while he talks to this woman. He then walks back over and says that is his daughters mother, again fine by me. I knew he had one. The woman drives away and then comes back to talk again. He is leaning in the car and I can't hear. Now he already told me that they ended their relationship years ago, should I be annoyed that he could just walk away from me or should I play it cool because we are not an official couple? I know he will always have a relationship with her but was that not rude for her to just call him away from me and for him not to say anything!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I would be pissed it would not matter to me if we were together or not walking away from me to talk to another female is just disrespectful but if he was like hold up for a minute or here is the key go inside while I talk to my baby mama would have been cool

jessdjnick · Answer

Yes it was rude...but then again, like you said you guys don't have a "relationship" . But You could tell him that it was kinda rude just to up and do that without even sayin "hay thats "so n so" I'll be right back. Specially if your just standin there waiting with no one else to talk to.

my heart belongs to a sailor! · Answer

i no how u feel girl this guy i was talkin to did the same thing kinda i did get upset not really mad but i tlod him it kinda bugged me that he didnt tell me he was leaving because yea it was kinda rude... but u do have a point by not bein his girlfriend but girl u r wit him so yea u do have the right to be upset ;) good luck

me · Answer

it was rude to leave you there standing alone. probably i would have left considering that you guys dont have a relationship

sweet · Answer

Now you say he is NOT your boyfriend....hummmmm...But he considers your relationship monogamous...that is confusing...sorry!!! what he did the 2nd time was rude...but again you guys are not boyfriend and girlfriend...so let it be....

Mystical_me · Answer

If you're not an "official" couple why are you worried about it? It sounds like you like him more than your admitting to yourself or this guy.

kathylovis · Answer

It was rude, but being a guy he probably didn't realize it. Talk to him.

Anonymous · Answer

i think doesn't matter what kind of friend she is to him, it's just plain rude to treat anybody the way he treated you.. he should mention this to him.  i would'nt put up with this kind of things.  if he is treating you this way why would you want to hang around with him anylonger?

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