Why good people dont get girl easily?

just be patient, the girl meant for you will come along. believe me it's not just with girls. seems as if bad things happen to good people. go figure. people who are honest and work hard for a living aways have it rougher than people who lie, cheat, and steal, and sell drugs. we just have to strive a little harder for what we want. your girl will come along and you will have a better life for having to wait. believe anything worth having is gonna take some time. she is out there waiting for you to meet her. she is just waiting for the right time, and boy when it comes will you be happy.

just be patient and God will send her your way.

blessed be,

Elizabeth

Good guys are modest and when they see a pretty girl, they get easily intimidated and feel the girls are too good for them. The dumb guys do not feel that way, so they have no problem hooking up with the pretty girls, so they will.

Also, many girls, especially in their teens, like going out with the rebellious d-bags and usually pass on the genuinely good guys. They think the good guys are boring and that being a rebel is exciting, and usually put up with cheating and being treated like crap for about a decade. Eventually, the girls will realize that the d-bags are not fit to raise a family, so they finally go after the good guys. That usually happens in the mid to late 20s.

So, my recommendation is to have some confidence. Ask a girl out. You might just be surprised. Remember, the only trait the dumb ones have that you do not is confidence. If you can match that, you stand a good chance.

well i do not understand this either ... i am a basically very good , honest person,. and i am not ugly....but i have always had abusive men or such rude men...i think it would be so nice to have a real decent guy..i do not even want to date anymore..course i am older now and my life i dreamed as a child did not come true at all...but i do not really know about your situation...but i know i made some real wrong decisions in my life...i hope you find the woman of your dreams and i hope she treats you right....i sometimes think we pick the ones that are not so good for us...and we do not realize until it is to late...

Because bad boy turn girs on. Girls like the self confident guy that acts very cocky and good guys doesnt act like that usually. Ppl act in many ocassions instinctively and girls are no exception. They want the tough guy, like lionesses want the big lion, the one that hunts better, the good provider. The world is mean and hard and usually good guys dont get the good stuff, so they need a mean and tough guy to protect them.

Perhaps the guys "who has the dumbest thing with them" are articulate.

Just a thought ...

Nice guys finish last, right?

I think that's crap. I would pick a sweet guy over a jerk any day. Maybe the loud obnoxious ones get the girls because they are more outgoing and willing to put themselves out there to get a date.

Just because a guy is good or honest doesn't mean he will always get a lot of girls. Popularity...attractiveness...hygiene, and many other factors all have to be taken into consideration.

Because, like you, no girl wants to hang out with someone that can't spell or speak proper, or even decent understandable English. You probably won't understand what I am talking about because your grammar is obvioulsly ridiclously poor, but that's where I would start to get a better chance with the ladies.

"Why it happens."

That does not even make any sense. Lord.

Most women seem to have a real fetish for scumbags, and then they whine when their relationship goes bad because their SO cheats or beats them. Nice guys just aren't attractive to them.

Some look for instantaneous gratification whereas the good can wait for the true, long-term relationship of marriage.