Married couples?

Doesn't sound like he feels the stress of paying bills at all! I could never "split" our money, it's a marriage not a business. If you two were living together, then okay, but you are married?

Sounds like your rocky patch is not over, and if I were you I would not let it be. Don't be is "sugar mama" unless you want to be. When I was dating, who ever did the asking paid for the evening's bill.

Well.... You two do not seem to be able to work this out yourselves. Most people can... I think you need some professional help. Maybe not an actual "marriage counsellor" but at least someone who is really an expert at sorting out family finantial matters. I don't know who that would be, but I am sure there have to be people out there that specialize in that. If you go to church, try asking your priest if anybody else in the congregation is good at that sort of thing or knows someone who is.

Good luck

sounds like hes still pissed at you and hes trying to get back at you for spliting the checking accounts. I think men who play games like that are full of **** you are still married. I don't know when thing get bad for me I have to ask myself. Would I rather be right or would I rather be alone. I f you feel its more important to be right and teach a grown man a lesson.[ which seemes to me from what you wrote hes not getting the lesson] its just looks like maybe its time to call it quits

I just read this to my boyfriend and he was shocked he told me to tell you to start taking his paychecks and give him an allowance.Me personally I would tell him the next time he asked you out say maybe some other time because your still full from having a late lunch with your boss.

I THINK IT IS A NO GO ZONE HERE!!!! IF HE COULDN'T EVEN PAY FOR DINNER WENT YOU'S BOTH WENT OUT OR EVEN A COFFEE THAT JUST SHOWS THAT HE CAN'T SUPPORT HIMSELF LET ALONE ANOTHER PERSON!!!! I THINK HE LIKES HIS TOYS BUT DOESN'T REALISE THE MORE IMPORTANT THINGS IN HIS LIFE AT THE MOMENT!!!!!

It sounds like you are living to completly seperate lives. Not living as one.

get some self-esteem training and you'll learn how to ask for what you want and say no to what you don't want!

I have your answer: www.daveramsey.com

This guy has a program that was MADE for your jerk...errrr...husband and yourself.