What to do with a child that is stealing and lying.?

It is quite normal for a child to lie but stealing is something to be worried of. Try to check his friends and do not allow any bad boys to be his friend.

This child is doing this for a reason. He isn't trying to get attention in the way of wanting to be a tough guy or a clever criminal. He shows no remorse and looks for the opportunity again and again because there is something inside that is really bothering him and needs to be addressed. Seriously. Definitely needs psychological help or it will continue and escalate into other antisocial behavior. He can get his a** whipped over and over, but that's only going to make him angrier inside and he'll feel more justified and continue. Going to juvenile detention or a boot camp would scare any child, sure, but you'd be shocked at how quickly they will handle it and the young guys I knew who went to juvie or camps came back meaner and with better criminal skills learned from the other ones in custody. This kid is very troubled inside and needs professional help. It's not coddling by any means to take him for that.

I am the mother of four boys ages 16, 13, 11, and 9. The first thought that came to my head when I read this question was....what is going on in this kids life that makes him seek attention? Children are a product of their environment. Somewhere along the line this child got the impression that stealing is OK. You said that you know he is stealing, my question is why is he able to steal? You are not able to trust him at this point. You should be monitoring where he is at all times! It is hard being a parent, I understand that people have to work and cannot be with their children 24 hours a day, but in this situation, if you can't, you need to find someone who can. He CANNOT be trusted. I also wonder what type of disipline is involved. When this child steals, force him to return the item to its rightful owner and apologize to that person. This will force him to be accountable for his actions. Whatever you do, DO NOT make excuses for him, this will send the message that you are ok with this behavior. Most importantly, tell him you love him very much and that you are worried about him, reassure him that you love him everyday, even if you are angry. He needs this positive attention! Explain what this behavior is doing to you as his mother and also to his reputation. Explain where this could lead in the future. Last, if you are not already, get involved with a church. Find other children his age that are leading positive lives and surround him with them. Good luck!

before , you send the police loose on him , I would seriously try some counseling and psychiatric help for the young man. he does not sound violent. he is acting out in a manner that shows he is trying to get some kind of attention. he is acting out some of his frustrations and problems that he believes is real and it might be real, this is a serious problem . a Doctor could find out just by talking to him .And might be Abel to get him to talk about his problems and that is a very important first step to recovery. it is certainly worth a chance, before you try the Police and justice route! sometimes aggression by others brings out more aggression in the youth ,at least give him a chance. and resort to the police last.

My step daughter used to do this all the time we had to take her to juvenile court and let the judge put her in juvenile detention and then a girls home but it never really helped thought we waited to long to get her help. You should act fast go to the juvenile courts and ask for help or your local department of social services and ask them but don't wait to long or it could be too late after the age of 10 or so its really too late... Good Luck!

You can contact the police for your jurisdiction and request to file a charge of "Incorrigible child" against your son. This will get him referred to the Juvenile Probation Department for your county, and decisions can be made to get him help. They can send him to counseling and order him to do community service. Often, being referred to the probation department is a wake-up call to the juvenile as to what his future could be like if he doesn't amend his ways.

If this child has shown no remorse and has been passing the blame, it seems like he thinks he is invincible. If people have tried to speak to him about this and he acts like it's no big deal, I suppose he will see when charges get pressed on him and he ends up in juvie. Sad, but sometimes it takes things like that to wake people (even children) up.

Have you heard of tuff love. Let the police give him an in depth look at Juvenal hall and the local jail, if that doesn't work try a prison. There is aways a boot camp. Good Luck

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I suggest taking him to the local police office and asking if your son can stay the night in a cell. It worked for friends of mine who have sworn of never doing anything wrong ever again.