My Boyfriend Says.....?

be careful u may scare him off---just accept today for what it offers...medical school will take up a lot of your time anywyay

What or how does he feel? You two should just sit down and talk about where do you go from here. He may want something different in life even though he agrees with you. Communication is the key to any great relationship and if you aren't ready to be a wife then you should let him know and he want be expecting to marry you anytime soon. Pray about it as well because God should be your guide and your key to doing whats right for you because in the end your happiness is what matters. God bless you

Dont put your medical studies on hold, when you complete your studies you'll still be at an early age and you'll be better prepared to settle down. He should support you through school. It is really difficult to focus on your studies if you are married, there are too many other responsibities that cant be ignored. Put your education first now and you'll enjoy a better life later. for sure.

As a man I'm hearing the same thing. It sounds like your saying let's get married and never be apart.

There is nothing wrong with feeling that or even wanting that, but there is a ton of change that happens to a person as you go through college. You actually may want to take a year or two away from each other to develop individually rather than jointly. You'll be happier in the long run.

Hi babygirl holl, It sounds to me you are set on not settling down at an early age.You want to finish you medical school,and have fun with your life before you get marry.The best thing to do is tell your b.f. that you love him,but you want to finish medical school and have some fun in your life before settling down with him.If he loves you,He will wait for you.Babygirl,that only makes since, for both of you.

Clowmy

Be open and honest with him and be prepared for whatever the outcome may be. Though you two shared many firsts, he may not be ready to make you his last. He may want to explore his other options before telling you with truth that he could see himself with you for the rest of his life. The 2 of you may be on different pages and you need to know this sooner rather than later. Don't crowd or pressure him but don't sell yourself short. Good luck.

Go out with him. Take him to a club. Then tie him to a chair and make him watch you have sex with 20 black guys. Then ask him if he still thinks you want to settle down. If he says yes then have the 20 black guys pull a train on him.

Now there is nothing wrong with what youre feeling, But you are young, it's kinda early to be settling down right now. Im youn 19 years old, and we have plenty of years to settle down, Dont rush into it. girrrrrrl, he just gone have to WAIT!

Don't push so hard, you definitely will scare him. Besides you are young, and you may have other plans for the future, concerning your life, career, etc. Perhaps he will follow suit later on, so for now just date him, and the two of you continue to care for each other. No pressure.

you can't help what you feel so there's no way to stop that. maybe just avoid saying things like that i'm sure eventually he'll be more comfortable with the thought of marriage, etc. if you guys stay together

you should chill and wait you don't want to scare off the person you love and you want to spend ur life with. he don't see it yet or don't want to settle down yet. . .