How do you atrract the opposite race????

The opposite race? Which one is that?

I fear you are going to have a lot of sadness in your life if you think like that.

The only person to settle down with, hopefully love and adore and have a wonderful life with is the one you are mutually attracted to and who falls in love with you.

What has race got to do with it?

First learn to mix and appreciate other people, get along and socialise. When you have done that you stand a chance of meeting the right person for the right reason!!!!!!!!!

Show the same decency and respect and courtesy to them as to any other person. And don't just say opposite race, cuz there are many out there than just one. But trully look for someone that is going to treat well and not just use you for an experience. Go and look at some of these other race questions where the white or latin guys talk about liking women of color and see if you can contact them and talk with them and see what methods do they like of a girl approaching them. That should help, but still when you find someone do it for the right reasons and not for something that will only hurt you in the end.

I date outside of my race also and its a slightly weird question but you cant make anyone like you no matter what race you are. I will warn you though that you should think about this before actually going through with it becauase you catch so much h*** by the race that you are and the race you will mingle with. I am white and hawiian and my now ex was black and the stares that I got from both black and white people were unbelievable. I believe that you cant help who you are attracted to. It will happen when it should. Find someone you are interested in and get to know them.

Kandi

Which race are you thinking of? Martians? I was always taught that there was only one Human Race. Your use of the word 'opposite' speaks volumes, for a start.

Obviously the people you have targeted so far are either prejudiced out of their tiny minds by the colour of your skin or your accent - or perhaps they perceive YOU as being too racially oriented - or they just don't find you attractive - no offence meant.

Perhaps you have been coming on too heavy?

I am white and have dated black along with white.

Some people are all about color. A black guy might want white

girls with blonde hair. To me that is not a guy i would date.

I have dated guys who dont care about color, just the person inside. Thats the person who want. How to get them?

Be yourself. And just being around that race, A good person

that is right for you should find you attractive.

Maybe you come on too strong. Find someone specific that you like and want to be with based on personality, not race, and work on developing a relationship with that individual. Just begging anyone of a particular race to date you seems a major turn-off. Back off! No wonder they're scared of you.

Think of why you are attracted to people of another race. It could be for good reasons or bad. For instance, people who have had bad relations with people of their own race or with their family might wish to escape their own background. It is not so much what you are attracted to but why that matters. If you have been frightened by something, people you are interested in might sense that. I think you should think through your real feelings before acting in this matter.

i mean its no difference in how to attract people just because its a different race i mean the same way u would attract someone in your own race if ur attracted let that person know and then start taking and go out on dates and so forth its no diffrence to me

Just be yourself , If it was meant to be then it will happen , I think that also has to do with what city you live for example I am her in Southern California and that is something you see alot of , so don't push it just be yourself .

I feel the same way i am a single white male and i happen like to like black and asian women and i feel as if i am invisible to them.

I always assume they wouldnt be interested in me, im a good lookin guy too. what your feeling is normal as far as i am concerned. my best advice is to keep trying and if they ignore you they dont deserve you sweety