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am i the only 20 yr old virgin alive? im that hot popular guy that every girl wants. should i lose it?

People think im not a virgin. My friends think im not a virgin but i am. I flirt a lot and go out with girls but not to the extent of having sex. I am religious but not that religious that would have an affect on my decision. I was just wondering why was i still a virgin when every girl would want to be with me. I'm also a nice, funny, sensitive, cocky guy. I was raised with mostly women so that probably had an affect. dont you think? Some days I just want to go party and **** every girl that goes running to my arms, but i just cant.

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Be proud of yourself for waiting for the right girl. You will know in your heart when you have found the special someone you deserve!Save yourself for that special person and your relationship will be far better than had you run around with any and everyone!Keep your record clean and you will be top pick. I know God has someone lined up for you.....You will meet her when you least expect it. Have fun,enjoy life and may God bless you!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    There's nothing wrong with still being a virgin unless it bugs you. I "got rid of mine," with someone I wasn't so crazy about just to get it out of the way. I don't regret it but afterwards I saw that it really didn't warrant the amount of worry I put into it before. Having sex to impress anyone isn't something I'd recommend. You seem like more of a man than that. Just make sure you're safe about it when you make it do what it do...

    Source(s): Male, 21.
  • 1 decade ago

    No, you need to protect your virginity. Once you lose it, you don't ever get it back. There's nothing wrong with you, honey. It's very agreeable to wait until you are married, and present yourself as a gift to your new wife. Perhaps she will have saved herself for you, too. Hang in there and be strong. Also, you don't have to worry about getting someone pregnant or aquiring an STD this way.

    Source(s): Experience. I did it right and waited until I was married. So did my husband.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well don't lose the nice guy part of you, because then you'll be another shallow guy that needs his *** kicked.

    I'm a virgin, and so is my boyfriend. We've just been waiting for the right person, nothing wrong with that. You should too.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Well when you do finally have sex, be sure to wear a condom. Don't need any little ones running around.

    Some people just have sex a little later than others, nothing wrong with that. Do you still live with your parents? Maybe that's keeping you from getting booty.

  • 1 decade ago

    Lose it only for someone you really love deeply and wish to marry for life. That's God's way for humanity. Anything else is from Satan. Be proud of yourself, be a solid man and don't succumb to temptation. Save your dignity. You lose much by being corrupted through fornication. Your innocence is precious. You can never regain it. At least when you sleep nightly, your conscience is clear. Your soul is stable & peaceful.

  • Holly
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Don't have sex just to have sex. I was 20 when I lost mine. I was engaged to the guy. I must say though, it sounds kind of funny that you say you're nice, funny, sensitive and COCKY. It sounds like one of those SAT questions: "Which word doesn't belong?"

  • 1 decade ago

    Naaaaah dnt warry dude am also 20 like you and still virgin... You are not the only one... I know lots of friends like us... Dont warry... Keep in till you marry someone its better... You will get a better pleasure! Beleive me... Good luck...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think is it sexy that you care about yourself enough to wait. It leaves something to be desired... also, take it from someone that didn't wait, it is the ultimate gift you can give that one person that you want to love for the rest of your life. In todays society, it is one of the few things you have... respect yourself, it is a wonderful and safe choice...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Cocky? Some people hate that...

    Maybe you're not ready or you simply have not found the right girl.

    Yes, those are cliche's but hey, they hold truth!

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