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Last year I started an emotional affair with a married woman who is very angry with her husband.?
I'm married too. Well, we have not pursued this affair any further. Should I? I love my wife even though she does not put out much. I know I'm not looking for any physical relationship in this, but things can go wrong.
19 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Certainly things would go wrong. She is angry with her husband because she finds in you an alternative. For betterment of both the families, refrain from any serious relationship.
- cheetah7Lv 61 decade ago
There is a GREAT possibility things can get out of hand. If u love your wife, bear in mind that if u embark on any type of affair, whether emotional or physical, u will end up throwing the life u built with your wife away. Obviously I'd have to say DON'T. In fact, u should cut all ties to this other woman as soon as possible. Her problems are not your problems. It is between her and her husband. U should, however, worry about your own issues in your own marriage and attempt to make your good marriage an even better one.
Remember the saying, "the grass is not always greener on the other side". If u get involved with this other woman, u might just find yourself in deeper sh!t than what u have bargained for and u might end up regretting your decision in the long run. So, love your wife and do right by her. She is THE ONE u gave your vows to. Honor it.
- 1 decade ago
You should cut yourself off from this woman and go back to your wife and beg for forgiveness. It wasn't right but there is a problem in the marriage to begin with and maybe both of you can work this out together through counselling and prayer. I hope it isn't too late to save your marriage but usually men cheat and want to stay married and have something on the side. That's why an affair can go on for years and noone leaves, yet when someone leaves a marriage for another lover, it doesn't always work out or it changes for the worse.
Your wife should also pay more attention to your sexual and romantic needs. Maybe there is a reason why she is not paying attention to you, and honestly, you need to ask yourself about the state of your relationship, its communication and intimacy and what your putting into it as well. Maybe she isn't paying attention to you because you are too wrapped up in this affair. If you still love her and it sounds like you do, maybe you can redeem yourself.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
yes, as u say things can go very very wrong and two familes will suffer. nobody will believe u that yours is just an emotional affair. & in most cases this emotional affair only will lead to other complications in life.please stop whatever u r doing right now. advise her also . if she is angry with her husband it is she & her husband who have to solve their problem. don't ever enter in others marrital affairs. u say u love your wife . have u tried to find out why she is like that ? try to rectify your married life & be happy with your wife & kids. all the best.
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- 1 decade ago
I call this affair an emotionally exploitative affair!You are taking dis advantage of the woman's personal dis satisfaction.When you declare that you love your wife, there shouldnot be any doubts about things going the wrong way.If you can help the woman to mend her marriage please do so.But, in the guise of lending her emotional support, donot get involved in physical relationship and donot ruin a beautiful relationship with your wife.If you are weak keep away from the other woman.Save your marriage first!!!
- 1 decade ago
Ahh...NNooo....o.k. you say that your wife doesnt put out much?? Well have you asked yourself why?? Does she remember what good sex is like or have you become redundant in the bedroom?? If you and your secret backstreet girl havent made it official for a year their has to be a reason for that also, dont you think?? Maybe you are the one with the issues in that arena.....If so check yourself before you go on to your next relationship and burn your bridges, bite the hand that feeds you, Hey if your WIFE finds out she might be telling you not to let the door hit you where the sun doesnt shine....whats up with people why cant anyone see things through anymore man you dont just go elsewhere when your bored....a marriage means every little vow you promised before god and anyone else who was there....and most importantly your wife.....good luck sry if i was harsh.......ANGEL
Source(s): ME - Anonymous1 decade ago
I would suggest if you are a low achiever, self-centred man, do your wife a favour by leaving her and pursue exploiting the married woman while she is emotionally low. You claim this married woman is very angry with her husband, it then beggars the question what happens should a day come (sooner than you think) when she is very angry with you and finds herself another jerk like you to unload her boredom!
- ?Lv 44 years ago
some people do in comparison to being left whether they do no longer look to be in love - it rather is like being abandoned. i ask your self extra approximately you and the emotional injury this occasion has imposed upon you as a individual, female and his spouse. you weren't placed in this planet to be some guy's foot stool and it sounds lots such as you're his foot stool and he could have affairs considering which you will enable him to step on you. The question is - does it actual remember what your husband advised his ex-mistress - he violated his settlement with you in marriage? do no longer you think of you deserve extra desirable than what's left of him after he leaves yet another female's hands? He ought to be kissing your bare ft which you post together with his crap - tell him to get his act jointly, come to kin/relationship scientific care or come across a sparkling place of living without you - and he ought to pay the loan or employ if he leaves and you should get spousal help.
- 1 decade ago
A bird in hand is worth two in a bush.
Be a good friend to the other woman and a good husband to your wife. All the three will be happy.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well if you love your wife do you tell this woman this?
Or do you tell her she is sexy and your wife never puts out?
Do you have kids?
Seriously who are you playing with?
Maybe this woman wants you but maybe it's just fake PC stuff who knows?
BTW emotional affairs are just as hurtful as the real thing.