Now how do start looking or should I?

Your problem is you're looking for "relationships" and not a husband. It's always going to be like this until you get married. Try going to church. You can meet nice guys there.

Live for you now, atleast for a while. Hang out in social groups and don't come across as looking. in fact just don't go looking. It is going to happen, not as soon as you would like, but be patient and start making some friends. Get your confidence back. Check out a book called MARS AND VENUS "Starting Over" by John Gray, Ph.D. Excellent book working on you first. Worked for me. took nine years though, but I didn't read the book until last year. See!!! First time in my life I can actually say I am truely happy and love life. Very thankful that God gave me the strength not to lose Faith. Hang in there and be patient.

The problem is you don't know yourself. You couldn't decide to leave your boyfriend without advice, can't move on without advice. If you knew yourself, your wants, your goals, you wouldn't need yahoo answers to tell you what is good for you. If I were you, I would take looking for a relationship off the table. What do you like to do? What do you want to do with yourself? Learn new things, do what you like. When you have a full life of things you do and things you like, you will meet similar people. Some you'll date, some you'll just talk to. There's no "right" time, you just live, and meet people as you go.

go out to eat and if you see a guy you like go over to him tell him you hate to eat alone, can i set with you, are if you have any friends tell them you are single and looking. you're only 27 years old so one month would never be to soon to start dating, life is 2 short. move on with your life. and may god bless you in your up coming years.

Use internet dude. Take some really cool pictures of you and add it to Myspace. Record videos, establish a cool profile page. And don't trust everyone, pick them carefully. Good luck!

PS: If you have an avoidant personality, go see a doctor and attend therapies.

well i think for some time you should stay single .then look for some one.

in the mean time think that what do u want frm some body in the life.once u r clear that what u want , you will find some body vry easliy .

first get a social life and don't look to date let them come to you... it works out great like that

well i think you should hit the club scene and just check it out and meet some guys and go on some dates, trust me if you go out and meet some guys they will be callin you for a date!

Like from what you say, you have to change your life style if you really want to move ahead in life.

stop concentrating on getting a guy then... just enjoy your work and stuff for the moment.. make friends with your work mates (even if they're not your type) and start doing things that you would like to but havent done yet.... i dunno, like dance classes, swimming classes, gym... anything, a chance for you to do something new, get somewhere different...

friends and boyfriends will followw!