Erectile dysfunction,frequent urination in 41 yr old man help!?!?

he might have diabetes and a prostate problem. since he doesn't have insurance now, at his age and with these problems he really needs to find a way to get health coverage or go to a doctor who is willing to take payment plans from patients with no medical insurance. please encourage him to see a physician for treatment because diabetes can lead to many other serious problems if he has it. Good Luck!!!

I am 27 now I was 20 when I started dating my husband at the time he was 31 he is now 40. We have a son together that is going to be 3 in a few weeks, and we have been together since. Except for a few bumps in the road before our son. What I am trying to say is that I went with him cause I knew he was experienced and wiser. He was grown up and mature and that's what I was wanting. I had just gotten out of a bad relationship with my first sons dad and this guy was good to me. I was already a young mom and I knew that I needed to grow up and take care of my responsibilities and I knew that wasn't going to happen with the guy I was with then. That's when I met him and everything changed. We are still together going on 7 years and we are still going strong, we have our ups and downs but we work through them. I don't worry about what others think its none of there business. My mom likes him and he doesn't even look his age hes a cutie putie. :P We talk about how it might be when when hes 60 and we just laugh about it because we don't care we love each other. I even call him grandpa sometimes and we both laugh about it. We have both been through so much together we almost died together, we survived together, we laugh together. I could careless what other people think and you shouldn't let what others think bother you, as long you are happy and this is what you both want. But what I am trying to say is that I think it is OK to date a younger or older person as long as they are over 18 and is consensual. If your in love and you are both happy even better. I wish you both the best of luck. I hope this was somewhat helpful and I hope it wasn't to much or boring. Not all of us are gold diggers, I mean yes were looking for a guy that can help support us but its not all about the money sweetie. Its also about him being experienced in the bed, and in life. Being mature and grown up mainly but money is not everything so not all us girls wanting to date an older guy are gold diggers.

I had the exact problem. Went to a Doctor, found it is was an enlarge prostate. He prescribed,some pills. In about two days,I only went once a night. And everything else went away. Just not having to get up seven times a night to pee,was a blessing. Found out why I was always tired,all day.

Sounds like prostate trouble. See a doctor and take Saw Palmetto.

medications he may be taking can affect this. my neighbors in bad health and is on several medications and has erectile disfunction which he admitted to me when i saw his viagra script. as far as no insurance there are places your brother can go to recieve treatment like some local health clinic, etc. im in baltimore and was laid off where as i lost my insurance and theres a clinic where they base your fee on your income(in my case none) and it costs me 7 dollars. medicine though hes on his own. good luck

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go to a doctor! many clinics and hospitals have free or very low cost care, but you have to go to patient care/ a social worker/ or ask in billing about what they can do. in my town. theres a clinic that takes all insurances and those without insurance pay$10 for a doctor appointment. ask at local charities about what is available.

Your "brother" ( or you ) must go to the doctor. My husband, who is only 27, has a similar problem. He has to get his prostate checked. It might be a problem with his (your) prostate. It'll be worth the money, even if you dont have insurance.

Well... ok.

He really needs to see a urologist.

He is having symptoms of one of two things

BPH

or Diabetes.

well... 41 year old man should have better things to do then being a pervert. Anyways, he is probably just getting old.

If he doesnt want to go to the doctor he is just screwed then and its his own fault... tell him to get a life

best answer plz. lol