How do I get through this?

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I am 38 years old and currently going through AI to get pregnant.  The first time I tried, everything went like clockwork--I ovulated right on time and went in for AI.  Unfortunately, I didn't get pregnant and got my period 4 days early.  Then when I was supposed to ovulate again (which has been consistent around day 12-14 for 6 months) I didn't ovulate between day 12-14.  I started panicking that I would never ovulate again.  I had to order a "specimien" for delivery becuase it was over Labor Day weekend and they were closed.  The thing only stays frozen for 7 days in the container they provide.  Well, the specimen went bad before I actually ovulated---which was day 18 (but would have been right on target if I had my period at the normal time).  

I am getting ready for my period again and another round.  I know I have to relax, but in the back of my mind I'm worried that things won't work out this time becuase of what happened last time.  How do I relax and not get paranoid??

stephanie n · Accepted Answer

stress is a problem ,May be if you try to not think about it too much just think of it like a job you have to do with no out come for you personally ,detach ,see if that helps.good luck ,its a hard thing to do it alone but then half of us end up alone anyway ,don't we..

waiting for baby · Answer

I t is very difficult,
Go tothe movies, do somethig completely stupid 
most of all spend lees time on you own 
that might help you not to think to much about it

leo readylove · Answer

that is very terrible to think in a such coprihensive way! relax and enjoy normal intercourse only and keep on treatment Dr. Leo.......leoledentist@yahoo.fr

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe you need to get out more. Let nature take its course.

I smile because of them ♥ · Answer

You should pray about it! God will help you!

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