does internet dating work? i mean chat and matrimony sites, are they real?

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i met a guy on an indian matramonial site, we seem to be hitting it off and he seems to be very honest and careing. we will meet in a week and see if we are compatable in real life not just from web and phone conversations. only problem is we live very far apart and one of us have to relocate. we both have good job so its hard to ask some one to scarafice his career but on the other hand i feel like i dont want to either. 
any advice would be greatly apreciated on this matter. you can also email me at cnderellah@yahoo.com if you dont feel comfortable to reply out in the open.
tahnks and have a good day

annastasia1955ca · Accepted Answer

Beware.  it's always different in person.  Alot of them say what they think you wanna hear when online and phone. I was living that hell, but am happy to say it's over.

hermosabeachgal · Answer

Have fun in a week and see how it goes.  See if the chemistry is there.  But of course be careful since you really don't know him.  You don't need to worry about relocating until you have seen each other at least a few more times ;)

nightirene45 · Answer

i to met a guy on the internet..we really fell in love fast..and i do believe it to be true love...So you both set down and really talk it over if you are serious about one another..maybe even do some research on what kind of jobs that is in each others city that is like your own...you may be surprise with relocating that you will have a even much nicer job....But the main thing is do you both love one another enough to relocate for the other? ask each other that question....

Angel · Answer

I am very happily married. My husband is my best friend and we get along so well. We have a three year old little boy who is our pride and joy. None of this would have happened if I didn't get online one day and meet him. We hit it off from the start and talked on the phone non-stop.... I finally took a plane out to meet him...and on the plane ride home I said to myself. I am meant to be with this person. I evenually moved there and that's it. Happily ever after! So yes, I think it is  possible to meet your love online!!

kiki · Answer

Yes, they can work.  I actually met my husband online; and we've been together for 4 years and married for 2 next month.  

You do however need to be wary.  There are people out there who will say anything to get a woman to meet him.  Please make sure that when you do meet it's in a public place, just for your own safety.

Good Luck!

Anonymous · Answer

cnderellah

you havent met him and you are already planning a move- both of you are anxious to start a relationship but if you rush it, it is likely that you will find new problems in the future.  Slow down a little.

Anonymous · Answer

Just use common sense and wisdom, be cautious. Every once in a while, there is a diamond in the rough, but not that often, unfortunately.

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Anonymous · Answer

be careful.  u never know who is responding.  meet in a public place.

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