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I'm sooo bummed!!!?

Yesterday was my birthday and the only people that said anything were my co-workers. I just started working here too. I'm so upset because I have 9 Sisters and 2 brothers and only 2 said anything to me. No cake from them or nothing...My mom called late that afternoon and my brothers wife sent me balloons..I thought I might get alittle suprise.. Nothing!!! My co-workers bought me balloons, flowers and presents and they've only known me for 2 months. I can't believe my familie....I'm sooo upset..Oh well right? No because I always do things for them. Balloons, cake, money, shout outs, and suprises...They don't love me anymore... I know this might sound childish but it sucks..I can't believe this happen.. My sisters b-days are one on the 30th and the other the first week of October..I'm not gonna do anything for them..or should I? I don't want them to feel like me but in a way I do. I Can't believe they forgot or didn't care!!!!!

Update:

Thanks to all of you for the belated B-day!!!

Thanks for cheering me up...

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  • 185
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    well get over it

  • 1 decade ago

    Families sometimes has a tendancy to believe there's an appropriate age to end birthdays that you're use to having! It's not that they don't care anymore; it's that you're growing up and they don't feel that parties, presents, ect. are that important anymore! Sure your family loves you! That's silly to even suggest! If it just so happens that Birthdays do mean that much to you, try explaining to your family that you felt alone on your big day and you thought everyone may have forgotten about you! They'll understand, but don't feel you have to end the tradition by forgetting ones birthday because of the way you feel now! Remember that it's Better To Give Than Recieve! By the way,"HAPPY BIRTHDAY"!

  • 1 decade ago

    Well.....Happy Belated Birthday! I am sorry that things did not turn out as you expected, but it is always good to be honest with those who you love. Not celebrating their birthdays would be kind of vindictive, so I would suggest still sending them best wishes. But, I would let them know how displeased you are with their forgetfulness. How about not going all out this year and letting them know why? I have experienced the same situation and lets just say that people understand better when the shoe is on the other foot!

  • 1 decade ago

    You Place too Much emphasis on YOU!

    Family always have the ability to Upset you in these situations!

    I gave up at the Age of 21 Expecting Birthday Treats/Surprises!

    Make Your Birthday swing!

    You need You !

    Expect Nothing from No One!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Don't do them the same way that they did you. You will not get a blessing from that. Show them that regardless of what they did, you still have unconditional love for them. Maybe they have something planned for you this weekend. Cheer up, you made it through another year! Some people didn't make it to their birthday this year. Be thankful for the ones that did say "happy birthday". It'll be find.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have felt the same way before to but i think that you should be the bigger person and still do something for your sisters. They may have had something going on or couldnt get a hold of you or something but just be the same person you are and do what you have always done and suprise them or give them gifts whatever. It sounds like you have a big family so just enjoy them no matter what.

  • 1 decade ago

    Happy Belated Birthday!!!

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    happy birthday late, sissy..

    stuff like that happens..

    some people make big deals about birthdays some don't

    my sister is always one to try and make everything nice.....But me I don't want the balloons and big hoo rahs.

    There are different types of people.

    I guess you really just want people to care a little.

    I understand that.

    SoRRy

    I don't think I'd just forget them on their Bday but your the one in your spot...you got more details.

    all the best with what you decide.

    how old are you

    maybe they just know that you are getting older and know they don't have to do something on the exact day of your birth??

    Have a nice birth day after

    ...may as well celebrate life right.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell them how upset you were that no-one remembered or made an effort to even wish you happy birthday whilst remindin ghtme of your efforts for others. Let them know that it's not about the presents but about them caring.

    Happy Birthday by the way

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