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how come guys can never make up there mind?

what does it mean when you continuously kiss, even in public, and you sometimes do a lot more then kiss. and he even tells you that he loves you and says that your all his.... does that automatically mean that your dating???

Update:

see i have been really good friends with this kid for like 4 years. and we just got really close now that i transfered and we go to the same college. but the only thing that i know is that his friends from canada dont like me. but idk why.

Update 2:

oh and by the way.... he tells me that he loves me to my face. i just dont know if its love love or if its like your a really great friend love

Update 3:

oh and i know hes not hanging out with other girls cause he invites me everywhere he goes and when hes not going anywhere hes inviting me to his room or hes stopping by my room.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It's not guys, It's little boys. Real Men can and do make up their minds and stick to it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Guys are weird, they will tell you all those things, and hint that he likes you alot and you guys are getting really close, and then when you give in and tell him you like him back, he will stray off from you, stop answering your phone calls, ignoring you. The only way you can be sure that you guys are dating, is if you ASK him, that way everything is cleared up, that way you dont get this idea your dating just because he hugs and kisses you, and that way you dont look like a fool when you tell your girlfriends hes your boyfriend, then he stops talking to you the next day or something. Just ask him, make everything clear so you know for sure whats going on! Because what girls consider dating, guys DONT consider dating, in fact, i dont even think "dating" is in ANY guys vocabulary, guys are weird, i wish i was one of them for one day so i could see how differently they thought than girls! Well good luck! <3

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No - It just means that he's getting some action. Has he told you he loves you face to face or via the internet? If you're going out in public and spending time together that means you're dating - yes. But you should make sure before you get your hopes up because most men would rather keep their mouth shut than to hurt your feelings by saying they're just not into you. Guys can definately make up their minds - They're not stupid.

  • 1 decade ago

    It should, that means your dating, and if he doesnt want to utter the words and make it verbally known, then he is getting it all without the commitment, and the reason guys cant make up there mind....its hard theyre usually working with 2 totally different ones at the same time. " the little one" versus the almost "big one".

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  • 1 decade ago

    um no u have to talk about it to make sure cuz that happened to my friend for 4 months and he then hooked up with some grl and she got mad and he said she had no right because they where not together. just make sure.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Real men know how to make up there minds. I would consider that dating, lol.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he is trying to be a player & act like cool to get u. He is probably a lonely guy who spends most his time watching porn & doing..it.

  • listen babes i just viewed your 360 xxx nice xxx you are a babe so i would be doing the same to ya in public xxx in fact probably more xxx

  • 1 decade ago

    true to the spirits.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would thinks so, if he claims you as all his.

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