Why does he keep calling?

People like that are selfish. He only thinks about the way you make HIM feel. He doesn't think about the way he makes YOU feel. Once you're there and available that makes him feel good and loved. Once you're not then he sees that you're not around and that makes HIM feel lonely and can feel your absence. Always thinking of HIMself and not you. That's also because he needs to grow up a little more and learn how to be in a relationship. He will learn as time passes. What you have to do is let him know that your a person, and not something that is there on demand. Make him miss you and see that you love yourself before anything else. That will make him respect you and not take you for granted. Make sure you tell him that you will not stand for his phone calls and harrassments. You can say, "You have made your decision to have a break and now I'm giving it to you. Besides, I won't be tossed around like a tennis ball in court, back and forth. Let me know when you know what the HELL you want. For that, you need exactly what you asked for: time."

Tell me how it goes. just a suggestion.

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In general, men have been intensely taught to conquer. You gave him something to conquer. If you reallyy mean it, be very direct, and if he does not comply, get a court order. By the way I believe at least these two ideas: People can't really be "in love"; people who are 'whole' can only share in "Love". Love is God. The other, until one unlearns a bunch of crap and then learns how to do a relationship with her or himself, cannot do a comfortable relationship with another.

U hurt his feelings lol he didnt want 4 u 2 be over...he needed some time 2 think

Just ignore him.