My boyfriend said he loves me but he doesn't want to be with me. How do I get him back?

I am sorry but at the moment he does not want to be with you.

He is trying to spare your feelings and his guilt by saying nice things. But when it comes down to it actions speak louder than words.

He is not being with you and unfortunately you can't make him.

Now concentrate on yourself, spend a night listening to the saddest music you have and eating chocolate, then the next day hang out with your friends doing girlie stuff and have a good night out.

Then get some new hobbies, do new stuff and tell your boyfriend to give you some space to get over him without mixed messages and no ex sex.

The question is what did u do to make him feel that way? Somebody did something, or maybe he is stringing u along while he is having some fun with someone else and wants u to be there waiting when he is ready for u. I don't know the whole story so I can't tell u how to get him back, so I guess I can't make sense of it either. Good Luck

There has to be a reason as to why he don't want to be with you anymore. I am pretty sure that he does love you and miss you, but you may wanna have a sit down and get down to the nitty gritty as to what's really going on. Don't settle for just "I don't wanna be with you no more". He has to give you a reason just like you would have to give him one if the tables were turned. Hope everything works out well!

Maybe he's not in love with you and feels bad. You can't get someone back that doesn't want to be with you. Maybe you should distance yourself from him, or else it's going to be really really hard for you.

Give him a lot of space. If he comes crawling back to you and you want him back too, then go for it. He's gotta see what he'll be missing!

he doesnt know what he wants...but in case he doesnt find something better....of course he'll always have you as the back burner....don't let him play games with you like that...he just wants to hold on to you just in case things dont work out...unless you want to be second best...i would tell him to go about his business and that i'm in the process of getting with somebody....bet he wont like them apples!!!

Take him at his word. He doesn't want to be with you. Take some time off, spend time with family and girlfriends, read some books and magazines, then move on.

If you love someone set them free, if they come back they are yours if they dont they never were!

Seems he jus wants2b friends n nothing more,respect that n move on.

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