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I would like to ask my husband out for a date? Plz help!?

My husband and I have been going through some rocky times lately. We truly love each other and are committed to our marriage, but it seems we never connect anymore. After we had a huge fight today I decided that I want to ask him to pick me up at a nice hotel in a nearby town, go out to a nice restaraunt but I'm not really sure how to go about it or what to do next. Please, guys and girls I really need some help here!

Update:

We have been married 20 years and have 4 children, youngest 17.

Update 2:

Thanks for some good answers. Can someone tell me or give me good ideas about what to wear? Should it be like a getting to know each other again date, or should it be a hot hot hot date? Guy what do you think really This is not just about sex.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    save your marriage. go for it and don't let it go. give him what he needs. It's never late

  • 1 decade ago

    Well after 20 yrs and 4 kids you should be able to ask anything!!! In the mean time tell Mr.right that Mrs.right would like to go out for a very nice dinner & some dancing and if he's coming pack a overnight bag you know this nice little place! ( with a KING size bed some wine and no kids) maybe do something you havent done for a while after go for a walk play cards in bed, fill the jacuzzi tub and drink the whole bottle of wine or more and put the do not disturb sign on when room service leaves at 2am.

  • 1 decade ago

    We all of have problems and we all have our bads days. But your marriage is very minor. You and your husband we going though a lot. Now get a pen and paper. 1- Call your husband - 2- sweet- talk to your husband. EX: Hi baby how are your doing) that how your start off. 3- After you get a serious conversation going on. Then you asked him would you like to go on a date. 4- If he said yes.. 5- Take him to the resturant where you had your first date. But remember wear somthing sexy.... Good-Luck !!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Its OK to send flowers to a guy.. so send him some flowers on the job with a note asking him to be at that special place that you have prepared for him.. Come on you know how to flirt.. Or send a singing teller gram telling him to be at the place that you have prepared...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just call, tell him that your sorry about the fight, and you'd like both of you to go out for dinner and make up.

  • 1 decade ago

    Send him a short note that says something like...

    The night of your life!

    Pick me up at ....... wearing your best!

  • 1 decade ago

    Hmmm... imagine yourself back in the day with him =)

  • 1 decade ago

    tell him that u are sorry and that u love him and that u want to make it up to him

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