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should I be happy & believe he is "the one?"?

Am I crazy or should I be happy that my ex of 8 yrs dumped his gf to be w/ me? I never stopped loving him - we just saw things differently but now we get along great, for the most part. He tells me I am his soulmate yet he still can't tell me he loves me. I'm so confused..............

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well he is your X for a reason. If you feel he deserves a second chance, but you may want to take it slow. You don't want to rush into something that just may not be there.. Keep your options open and put more irons in the pot that way if he turns out to be a jerk or the loser you left years ago it won't hurt as bad when you dump him the 2ND time if you have to...

  • 1 decade ago

    Things weren't working out with what he had going . So he fell back on old faithful . Some one who no matter what will take what ever scraps he throws out ..... He doesn't say it because he doesn't believe it . He is a user and if you go back your even a bigger looser.... Have a back bone and get a little respect going for yourself . What the heck happen to you to believe you deserve this . I know you have higher hopes and dreams for a future ..... Don't allow this looser to get in your way of be a successful young lady...

  • 1 decade ago

    Dont believe he is the one until he tells you how much he Loves you and actually shows it!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    He's not the ONE for Sure----

    Wait it out seriously

    Few people find the ONE

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  • 1 decade ago

    may be ....i thinking somthing like that...!

  • 1 decade ago

    i guess so

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