should I call her to laugh at her?

You have not moved on after 8 years...

Take care of your son...leave the rest alone. (And take care of you--then you're son will be OK too.)

Gloating simply hooks you both back into the same thing...

Just Leave it....as a friend has told me many times!!!!!

Are you calling to gloat that you waited for him 3 years while he was ******* her.....you better just sit down and shut up.

Definitely not. Would not be cruel but would lower you to her level. Don't waste your time on something so negative. Focus on your family instead.

No one should gloat....because think about it...is there any guarantee he might return to her as he has returned to you.

Personally I'd kick him in to touch...doesnt seem to be able to commit fully to anyone.

Only if you want her to call you when he dumps your *ss again to go back to her after realizing why he left you in the first place.

its cruel but if shes that much of a ***** n' it makes you feel better then yeah,but in the end his with you isnt he

cruel AND lame...unless youre like 15. why dont you try being the bigger person?

no i dont think you should, it will probably just erupt into something silly, she knows that you have won, just forget about her now and get on with your life ;o)

NO no been there done that.After I did what I did my ex was mad at me.

hell hast no fury when a women is scorned. think about it first.