Me and my soon to be husband loved to abuse each other?

Duh, get some kind of mental help.

Brina, there is nothing healthy about this and you two should not get married. Me and my hubby fought in the beginning, just like you said the fights would get really heated and then end quick, I too lost my strongest love for my Hubby before we got married. I excepted the fact the he is basically just an A****h***. So, I married him despite the problems. Big, Big mistake. Things got allot worse and now I just want to strangle him most of the time. We have nothing that we actually like about each other and we have a daughter together. I really don't even like him as a person never mind a Husband. My suggestions is to run far away and don't look back, The make up sex isn't worth the aggravation.

You need to figure out if you're truly happy in this relationship. My guess is you're probably not. Because abuse will eventually lead to feelings of hatred for the person abusing you. I get professional help or end the relationship.

Get help as soon as you can, your relation is not healthy, will lead only to more violence and abuse, and one day you or you boyfriend of both will be seriously hurt. You have nothing to loose but you can gain self respect and chance for useful life. Good luck.

this is advantageous to renowned you're worried and attempting to help. you may't wean him off his drugs- a physician has to try this. as that's i does no longer even bypass away him by myself with the medicine- they are able to be hoarded if he's relied directly to take them after which all taken at as quickly as. Now i understand he has threatened yet you may't handle this on your guy or woman- except you stop living the the remainder of your existence so which you will continuously watch him- that's probable no longer attainable or maybe then if he will become disillusioned you probable does no longer be waiting to do something different than watch him be in soreness and conflict. the actuality that he's at this intense- misusing his drugs and risky, potential he needs expert help. His draw close on issues would seem fragile yet he's not. As somebody who has been there i do no longer think of he wil destroy yet sitting in his misery basically creates extra stress for him and make it extra sturdy for him to act on his impulses. What he needs is a bypass to to his psychiatrist/psychologist- ultimate case state of affairs- who optimistically will help arise with a plan. you may try additionally utilising him to the Emergency Room so he would be assessed without the want of being sectioned/committed. Worst case state of affairs you may basically call 911 and tell of his tries and threats. It sounds tough in spite of the shown fact that it variety of feels he's sinking quickly and turning out to be extra impulsive which isn't an spectacular place to be without experienced/experienced help. i'm no longer partial to psychiatric wards- yet I honestly have had to force somebody to the well-being midsection while they grew to alter into manic and swiftly overdosed. It replace into frightening gazing them and not understanding what got here next. Is there everybody who can stay over in the days once you're at artwork or the place he will basically bypass to relax- relatives' abode or something? i understand the Ritalin is a stimulant and would exacerbate mania in some human beings yet you honestly want a physician's suggestion till now you initiate fidgeting along with his drugs through fact the diversities themselves may be no longer elementary to handle. this is sturdy which you like him and are there for him, basically carry it to concepts potential making painful options at situations. each and all of the final.

Sounds as though you both need some help. I can only hope there is no children involved. Love is not inflicting pain either physically or emotionally.

The sad thing about that is you know that youre relationship is unhealthy. If thats what ya'll like to do then ya'll need some counseling or something because that is not helathy.

You two have a twisted relationship if you like to abuse each other.

It's called "battered wife syndrome" and it's a real thing. You 2 need to get some counseling before something really bad happens or you have children who are subjected to this! Please look into a marriage counselor! Good luck!

I think you're both mad if you think there's a future together. Find someone else who is'nt abusive and who you love totally

Close that door, get into counseling, and open up a new door to a healthy, nonabusive relationship.