What should I do should i go or stay?

If you have this opportunity to go then by all means go! Your husband is your primary family now and should come first. Years from now you will look back and see that going and living in another culture was a life rewarding experience... Also look at it this way, your marriage will be stronger because it will be just the two of you.... You can still communicate with family through the Internet and what a great opportunity for them to come visit you!

If you do not have any immediate priorities that you are dedicated to where you reside at the current time such as work, school, or children that need you, then I would probably go if it were me, especially if you are the type of person who likes to see new places and try different things, I would want to be where my husband is at, I think I would miss him to much if I had to wait 6 months to see him. However if you have obligations where you are at, or if you go and are going to be in the middle of nowhere then Its understandable to not want to go. I only have been in an airplane twice, it is nerve racking but after awhile you get over it. I am sure you will make the right decision and if you do decide to go, have a wonderful safe experience.

Yes Korea is far but you made a commitment to your husband when you exchanged vows to support him and be with him for the rest of your life. If you have the opportunity to be with him you should be delighted...think of all of the woman out there who's husbands are in Iraq and would love to be with him everyday. Dont miss any precious moments with him...life is too short. You can still communicate with your family while away. He would probably be very disappointed in you if you chose not to go...he may not tell you that but it may not be good on your marriage. Flying is scary the first time but once you are up in the air it is not bad at all. Overcoming that fear will be easier if he is with you. I think you should go...good luck.

Go for it girl!! Planes are great and nothing in the world should be able to keep you from your hubby. Do you know how many military wives would die to be able to be with their hubby's right now? You can call your doctor and get a mild sedative to help you with nerves while on the plane. Take this opportunity to see another part of the world and be the supportive wife you should be. This is his job and it is not an easy job, so don't make it any harder. Two years will fly by. Good luck, enjoy and love that brave man you got !!!!!

Travel is broadening. Korea isn't place I would choose to go, but then it will be an experience. I'd never been in a plane before I joined the military and I'm even afraid of heights. face the fear and enjoy the trip. There will probably be more in the future if he stays in.

I think you should go. How many people get to travel abroad? As far as your family I don't think they would be upset if you left they should understand that is you husband and this is an opportunity of a life time. Send them lots of great gifts and they will be fine.

My brother was in South Korea with the Air Force and he loved it. He and his wife are now in Japan. I advise you go. Your family is and always will be your family-people grow and change and a marriage is a lot of work and you should be with him if at all possible.

You should go, this is a great opportunity to learn another culture. And like you said you will only be gone for two years, your family will be here when you get back. GO!!

Go you may never have this chance again. Try small trips on a plane before jumping on one for 17 hours.

For better or worse, right? Of course you should go! Explore, learn, broaden your horizons! Conquer your fears! Open up new doors and do all of that with the man you love...the man you married....what an amazing opportunity!