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Just aksing?

Have anybody been in a committment with a male or female. And after awhile you begin to not like them all the time.?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Yes and it's just something that you work through. I love my husband but I don't always like every thing that he does. I'm sure it goes the other way too. I do love him but I don't always like him and the same goes for my kids,parents,bothers and sisters and some of my friends. That's no reason to give up on them.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, that'll happen when you're with someone for awhile. I've been married 10 years, and my husband and I love each other very much. But we don't necessarily always like each other! Love is a choice we make on a daily basis, because we committed to do so when we got married. If that sounds like a miserable life, it's really not! It's a joyous one. We've been through a lot and there have been times when either one of us could have left, but we didn't. We just kept praying for God to help us love each other. And He does. We are more in love now than ever. The feelings are the result of the choice.

    Of course, if you're not married, the "rules" are different. This may not be someone you want to spend your life with, and clear thinking now could save you some agony later. But I guess my point is that if you're looking for someone that you're always going to like all the time, you'll never find them.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes it happens. I am not an expert, so I can't explain it very well, but communication is a key factor. If you tell your partner how you feel, you may dicover that they didn't realize they were pushing you away. Or maybe you don't realize that you are pushing them away... The main thing is if you want to keep this relationship you need to communicate.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes. Right now. I am in the middle of a trial seperation with my fiance because I told him that I am not in love with him anymore. It hurts a lot though, because I do love him, but as your Q asks, I feel like I don't like him sometimes because we can't get along and he does and says so many things I don't like. It's a tough situation.

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  • 1 decade ago

    That has happened to me with all the relationships I have been in, unfortunately I think after awhile people change and start to grow apart.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yeah It's called marriage

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That is pretty normal! Any two people try to share a life and there are going to be things about the other that annoy you! That is when the "commitment" kicks in

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Naaaaaaaaaaaaaah why ya aksing is it cos you can't spell m8

  • 1 decade ago

    yal , when i found out they weren't the person i thought they were. that is why i say take your time in a new relationship.

  • Toto
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Yes but not too deep commitment.

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