Why can't I get off?

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My wife and I have been married for 19 years.  Our sex life has had it's ups and downs (like most I assume).  The last four times we have had sex (in the past 2 weeks) I have faked my orgasm.  I get hard as a rock and bring my wife to peak sometimes even twice, but I can't get off why?  Is that normal for my age, 39?  Also is it possible for a woman to get streatched out?  It seems like she is more loose than normal.

darlene100568 · Accepted Answer

If it only happen 4 times then dont worry about it.I think you are thinking during love making that she is loose and not concentrating on the moment.No women do not stretch out.Must be nice to fake a orgasim.I would know if my man did not fill me with the goodies.lol

fortyninertu · Answer

Your wife may be a little looser now that she has kids.  Chances are though you turn her on so much that she gets very moist and then there is little friction to push you to orgasm.   When you first make love try getting off first then finishing her with your tongue or fingers.  Good Luck

unknown, · Answer

Yeah get stretched out by having kids, an having sex with other guys.

Jookemgood · Answer

Yea she could get stretched out by having sex with other guys. Find someone tighter...

Anonymous · Answer

NO! Not normal but happens sometimes. See a doctor! If you let it go it will get worse!

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know why you seem to be insensitive..
You do indeed seem to be experiencing something unusual...
Have her finish you off orally or manually...
Have you tried anal ?
I know that isn't the solution but it may be a temporary help...

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Why can't I get off?

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