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There is a guy who keeps bothering me. I want him out of my life, but he doesn't give up. What to do ?

I made as clear as I could that I am not interested, but he still keeps asking me out, call my mobile, wants to give me presents that I don't accept and so on. It is so annoying !

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well... if you have an elder brother.. he can help...

    If you have a good guy friend... maybe he can help...

    ultimately, i think this guy is head over heels over you... nothing will stop him now i guess... even if you change your mobile number, i guess he will have his ways to find out... worst situation is that you might find him under your block...

    try refusing his phone calls and do not reply to his SMS... and if it persists, get your family members to help (your dad)... i hope he has not reach the stalking phase... if he does.. seek your MP's help... i guess he is just one guy that believes persistency pays off....

  • 1 decade ago

    Make it clear to him you don't like him. I was in your shoes once and I know how irritating some persistent guys are. I tried to be nice by dropping hints but the problem was they were so caught up in the chase they couldn't get it in their thick heads. Some guys can turn nasty, especially those who've invested so much time, money and effort into the girl. They'll flip and accuse the girl of 'wasting their time'. So, it's best to make it known to him from the very beginning.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Let him down gently, its the only way, being abrupt with this guy will only see you as more of a goal to be with. Or you could let him see you with another guy. Men are one track minded, and when we set upon a goal, we usually don't tale our eyes from it, we can keep telling ourselves there is a chance, when clearly there isnt. So you have to show him in reality there is not. By showing him your happy with another, or saying your a lesbo.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    Why telling the ladies to tell him something? tell him your self. training counsellors can not do a damn undertaking approximately it the two. tell him to bypass away you on my own, provide him an ultimatum, and if he would not provide up, bypass on your crucial's place of work and fill a criticism against him for harassment.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I used to be that guy. He cant accept it yet, its going to take him awhile to realize that he has lost. I never got violent, and i hope he doesnt either. Until you start dating some guy, your admirer is going to keep bothering you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ok give him a cake. Then a week later show him a picture of you taking a big crap on a cake.

  • 1 decade ago

    Restraining order!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Simplest and quickest is to tell him you are going

    to the cops.

    That should normally make him go away.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell him if he doesn't leave you alone you will get a restraining order against him, then do it if he continues.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell someone

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