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A guy seems like he wants to talk to me...but....?

Ok, this guy started walking by me when I'm on break and he looks directly at me, smiles says hi, and keeps walking. He'll turn around and look at me and smile...but keeps walking. I'm 36, I've dated plenty, but I've never encountered something like this. I can't make the first move. I tried, but....I lost my nerve. I've asked friends and they say to drop something as he walks by, or ask him for the time....stuff like that. I can't do it! What would be a good way to get this flirty guy to STOP and talk to me. I do smile and say hi back and watch him walk away! Drivin me crazy!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Listen to your friends... Just drop something on the ground as he walks by... He'll stop to pick it up, you say "Thanks", and hit him with the smile, and that doe-eyed look that women do to make mens knees weak... He'll probably take it from there...

  • 1 decade ago

    Live a little, Ask him to buy you lunch or a drink for looking at you, smiling etc. i doubt he will say no.

  • 1 decade ago

    first of all take a deep breathe just let it come natural when he says hi to you say hi back to him and then ask him how is ya day going then hell answer back and then a conversation will start

  • 1 decade ago

    next time he says hi, say hi back, and introduce yourself, and he will do the same, then ask what he is having for a break or do. or take extra of whatever you to take to your break and share with him.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Invite a couple of people to lunch and make sure he's one of them. Maybe in a group, he will be more likely to socialize with you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ya know, it might be cheesy but I am voting for the drop something... seriously, I've done this recently and believe me, it worked out for the better. :-) Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    next time when he say hi, say hi back. then, start a conversation. or ask him (if on lunch break) where's he's going,

  • 1 decade ago

    have a party and invite the whole staff, making sure that he isn't working that time, invite him first to make sure that he'l be able to come and if so then invite everyone else.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell him that you would like to take him out to dinner

    Source(s): If that dosent work try to keep on smiling and saying hi it will work sometime
  • 1 decade ago

    ask him for a good scarey halloween movie to watch for halloween

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