how would you handle this?

So he was well aware that you were in the next room wating to be sexed? What an ***!! I would have blew my lid. Let him know that if you arent enough for him and that if he needs nasty porn to get him up and going or off, then you arent for that. I have no problem with sex tapes, if I am watching too. I do have a problem if my husband looks up porn while I am sitting waiting for sex!! May be he had mixed signals and thought you were going to bed and thought he would finish what you started? You DO HAVE A RIGHT TO BE PISSED!!!

Disconnect the internet or better yet set a block on the computer and set a password that only you know.

I did this for several sites to prevent my teens from viewing and my ll year old. You can also set the rating system for your computer that won't allow x-rated sites.

Go to the "contents" tab in the internet options drop down window and select the settings on under the section that says "conten Advisor". You enable that and set it . Then go to the Settings and check the boxes of the content you don't want allowed. Tick off the "never" box for how often the site is allowed. Also set the password.

You will still be able to do what you normally would on the computer but he won't be able to access porn etc...

I also did it for the myspace. site. I listed it as a specific site that wasn't allowed.

As a last resort you can disconnect the internet.

Be really creative with your password. I speak 5 languages and my husband only speaks 3 and the kids only speak 2. There isn't a chance in H*LL they would ever guess my password.

OMG, I would have been so pissed off. I am taking it that the night did not end with a "bang". That would have made me feel as if he doesn't find me attactive anymore. What an inconsiderate jerk! Next time, when he wants to get busy, you should go look at naked guys on the computer, and if he gets mad....ask him how it feels. Sorry to hear about it.....he is a moron!

I would be extremely pissed and turned off. His night would be a very long and lonely one. I would probably be out the door. There is no way I could handle that.

I'd be pretty pissed too. Your husband sounds like he has a porn-additcion problem if he'd rather look at it on-line than have it for real with you. You might need to have a talk with him.

Um, yeah, I would be fuming! First of all what is he doing, priming you up to let you down. I would have gone up to the computer and shut it off. WTF is that. I would be like oh, buddy, looks like you are going to be pretty hard up for awhile. What is up with all of these guys looking at porn, when they have the real deal willing and ready? Kick his ***!

Get a big hammer and trounce the damn computer. If he would rather look at that crap than indulge with you there is something wrong whit his prioities. Have him committed and examined.

I would have turned off the computer and had my way with you.

hmmmm not sure how i would handle it....sounds strange to me...maybe he needs to look at porn first some guys are like that

He is sick, and I would not have children around him. He needs help, and now you know it, so please get him some.