should i stay or move on ?

Of course stay, you like this guy, you can't run from the things that happened, you run away from the relationship it means you don't care about him and once you do that, it will hurt you once he's gone. You have to give men credit, we don't always cheat and you can't listen to all rumors, all you can do is have faith and Trust....

Abortion is definitely not what you should do, I feel like you are more likely to feel pain if you leave him and give up the baby, It wont be as easy as you think, I promise, I lost twins and I honestly regret it as a could have been father I wish things were different, and about your guy, he'll come around, just sit down and talk to him, tell him whats on your mind, talking helps you know?

You need to do some serious soul searching and if you do continue the relationship with him. You know what you are in store for and just deal with it. Don't complain, after all it is your choice. However, if you want better for yourself, and you should, move on. As far as an abortion, that is really a very personal choice and i do not feel that it is up to anyone but you to make the decision that is best for you and the child. Use some birth control and stop getting pregnant by this looser. You should read you question and think of this as a friend asking you what should she do. And then answer the question yourself, leaving your emotions out of it. I think you will make the right choice. However, keep in mind God creates children and everyone in this world was created for a reason a purpose. God bless you and Good luck with your soul searching.

Have you got any family or close friends you can discuss this with? You sound like you need support, something by all accounts you've never had from him. Please don't rush into anything that at a later date you can not change, i.e. the baby. It could be that you have the baby and leave him and still do ok for yourselves. If you can, get support with this emotional issue from someone close, and think long and hard about your options. You are right about one thing though, he has to go. All this so called man has done is dump on you and left you to pick up the pieces. I hope you get this sorted out for all your sakes, all the best.

Within your sentences one can see you have the answers to your questions and these answers shows the value you attach to life which is obviously that of some body who cannot accept victimizing some body for another persons weaknesses or accept to be a victim in the name of an illogical love. You will surely see the kids (including the unborn one) can be people you can count on when the world gives you immature friends like you have so don't think of getting rid of any. Immature and crazy guys who will die with small minds are all over the world so be prepared to meet them and leave them, time to leave this one and have him pay for childcare. Don't blame your self to have come in contact with the thug, work hard for the future of your kids, learn the lessons like choosing your new man from another place if you had this one like in a club or so, just try something else and God will certainly guide you.

As far as abortion goes... I wouldnt do all that.. But If I felt unable to care for the child Id give it away. So many women out there cant concieve (like me) and would do almost anything for a healthy baby. I would NOT NOT NOT NOT NOT stay with him!!! ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER... and he sounds like a SH1TTY human being anyways. So Def move on and find someone who will ALWAYS be there and count every minute with you as being together. Good luck

Doesn't sound like the type of guy I would want to stay with. As far as abortions go, I'm not the type of person who could never have one. If you feel you can do it, it will get you out of the relationship sooner. But, if you leave, there is always welfare to help you until you can get back on your feet and work again.

You really are in **** and a lot about you sounds fcuked up. Now, remember that abortion is murder, do not abort.

Best option I see for you, one that keeps you free of that sex - hungry cheat you have described above, is to raise the two children. Slap the guy's asss on child support and move on.

Don't abort the baby. You'll never forgive yourself. One more heart that won't beat. One more pair of eyes that won't get to see. One more pair of ears that won't hear. One more mouth that won't speak.

I say, you dump his ***. A cheating man is not worth anything. You do not deserve that piece of s***. You deserve much better. So put him on child support. And you raise both your babies. Get in touch with family, they'll love you and help out. That's what they're there for.

A man who cannot keep his wiener between his buns isn't worth salt. I say dump him now.

I would get out of the relationship if he's cheating on you, it's obviously not good for you and I'd say that you know it in your heart. As far as an abortion that is entirely up to you. You have to do what is best for you and your child that you have. That doesn't necessarily mean that getting an abortion would be the best for you two, it means that it is your decision.

you should definately not have an abortion,the baby didn't ask

to be put in this mess,and if you are happy and he's treating

you like a queen then stay,but if he's not treating you the way a lady should be treated then move on.Always remember this,"a

man's home is his castle and that's where the queen lives"