Thanksgiving dilemma?

i guess you could choose to go to your aunts and not go with your mother. sure you may not have a big thanksgiving dinner but the two of you could come up with something. i think that even if you ended up eating soup and a sandwich together that would be great. i think you would both like that. so, tell your mom that you are going to spend it with your aunt.

Tell your Aunt how VERY important it is for her to be with you on Thanksgiving. Really push her to go, tell her you will only go if she goes ;)

I think once she gets there, she will have a great time and maybe make some new friends too.

She may just feel she will be in the way...Tell her she WILL know someone there.. you and your Mom.

Also, would it be possible for your Mom's friend to personally call and invite your Aunt over? That might make her feel a little better about going..

Good luck!!

Well I personally do not think there is anything wrong with going over to some friends house for Thanksgiving. I would just tell you aunt that this is a great time for her to meet some new people. You never know who might be there. Tell her that she can ride with you so she will feel more comfortable. I would just tell my aunt that it meant alot to me for her to come. I think she will end up coming with you. Just make sure you hang with her so she doesn't feel left out. Who knows, she might not be single after this Thanksgiving.

Why don't you have a small dinner at home or even a thanksgiving day lunch at your house, then go over to the friends house for dinner. This way you can be with your aunt and your mom's friends. Instead of a huge turkey just have turkey breasts and some sides.

Thanksgiving drama stinks, and so do inflexible traditions approximately who to bypass to. Use this occasion as probability to stop the insanity and stop the criminal accountability to could desire to bypass to anybody's residing house for Thanksgiving. do not bypass to anybody's Thanksgiving dinner. stay residing house and merely have a extreme high quality day with your individual relatives. Then, in view which you broke the trend this 365 days, you may have freedom to break it lower back next 365 days, after which you isn't under this criminal accountability lower back and continuously could have the potential to have your individual dinner. you would be happier, your husband would be happier, and in case you're susceptible, you need to use the day to help people who're much less fortunate than you-that's impossible in case you're working around attempting to delight the inlaws.

instead of going with your mom, rally up as many people that you know (and your aunt knows too) and have a nice little Thanksgiving dinner, so that she is included and you still get to have a good time.

try to convience your mom that u think that family is more important then friends. because your family is gonna be there for u through thick and thin and your friends can back down and run any time. your mom has known your aunt her whole life and she got friends later on. family is forever while friends are found along the way.

well, i think if your mom wants to eat with her friends she ought to and then have a meal with all her family. what's wrong with doing both, we do. we have some friends that like us to come eat with them one day and then we have a family dinner with our folks on another day. It doesn't matter to me what day we get together, just as long as we spend time with each other. we seldom eat on Thanksgiving Day because everyone has family and we all need to share our time with others.

I hate when that happens!Isn't there any way they can come to your house instead?Then your aunt wouldn't feel like the guest.My mom used to be that way too-alone but wouldn't want to go to someone else's house cause she didn't like their gravy or some dumb thing.Good luck at coaxing her.

drag your Aunt sounds like she needs to get out some