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why does this always have to happen to me?

I have absoultely no friends except for 1 person and my boyfriend, question being why do people always talk about me lie to me, lie to others and make them hate me and then steal them and go out with them even if it was my ex boyfriend. i dont know what to do anymore. im about to blow, all i really want to do now is go to starbucks sit there and read or study and this isnt me at all. help?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    When a person wonders why something always happens to them, it is time for that person to look at what they are doing to cause the same thing over and over. Maybe people aren't understanding who you are. Evaluate yourself (it isn't any fun) and try to figure out if there is something YOU are doing that is making people act and say the things they are saying/doing. One person doing it is an oh well, two people doing it might be a coincidence, but if there are a bunch of people doing this, then you are doing something that you need to change, if you want to have multiple friends. Somedays sitting alone to read is a kinda nice thing to do. I apologize if I offend you, but you asked.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Find new freinds, Go to starbucks and start a conversation with someone who's sitting on their own (If it;s someone of the opposite sex, try not to sound like you're chatting them up) 'cos all the peeps talkin sh!t behind your back are d!ckheads, just ignore them, don't let them get to you or you'll lose yourself and things will get worse, ask your boyfriend to introduce you to his friends!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    I say go to Starbucks! Who needs them anyway!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe cause you used the words me, I and I'm eleven times in one paragraph.

  • 1 decade ago

    You have to analyse people before yo ubring them into your circle. Stop thinking everyone is your friends. You have to sort people according to your needs and their actions.

  • Im me it hads to me all the time to well she like to this week. here it is ashley_nicole_briggs@yahoo.com.

    And we can talk it over together if you want.

  • you have to be a true friend to have a true friend sounds like your hanging out with the wrong group

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you need to have a group descussion with the ish talkers

  • 1 decade ago

    i have the same problem =[

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