Can his relationship be saved?

From your post, I don't know why y'all are in a relationship together in the first place..and PLEASE don't bring an innocent child into it.

Why put up with his jealousy, insecurity, double standard, and controlling nature? That's not a healthy relationship....where's the trust? where's the communication? how much more time to you want to spend fighting?

Find someone who knows what an adult relationship is all about...who encourages you to have friends and be your own person and grow...and for whom you will be happy to do the same...

Good luck!

You sound like you know what you want and can afford.You are not married to this guy, why does he think so low of you?If you live on egg shells to keep him from getting upset and accusing you of stupid stuff,why not try a separation for a while?One thing you should never give in to is a child,you are right.After all it is your body and life.If he's talking to an ex---don't put up with that at all.Remember while you are dealing with his Drama --Mr.Right is looking for you...Good luck.

You are with the wrong person. He's controlling, insecure and way out of line. End it- it should have been over months ago. This isn't love, this is you wanting some fantasy about healing and fixing him- won't happen. Get your education and find a normal man.

i didnt even read the whole thing n i already know it cant be save. possessive and jelous the mean hes not gonna change it only gets worse u wont be able to talk to any guy or go out and do something with ur friends hes gonna tried to keep u home all day. so unless thats what u want.

I think you need to be moving on. You may both be too young for a serious relationship, but he is certainly too immature. He will always try to control you by limiting your contact with other people and your relationship will become a prison. No relationship can be as onesided as he is making yours and survive.

It sounds like you really like him so you really have to think "do I like him enough to deal with the situation" and you guys should really scratch the idea of having a kid because it sounds like the relationship is unstable and financially unstable (wrong time for a kid) He is being really selfish and you should set limitations and if worst comes to worst leave him and stay by yourself until you find yourself a good mate.

NO, He is already showing you what will it will be like if the relationship progresses. End now before you consider bringing a child into it.

This is just a taste of what is to come if you marry him. He is controlling. He has female friends but youre not allowed male ones? You might as well put your burqa on now if you plan on marrying this loser.

sit down w/ him and talk about the problem. u went far enough to ask strangers for help, now go talk to the one w/ the real answer.

"Baby" is bettel lock a other person,more responsability,more human,a man uses the brein...,good look...Kiss...