I'm really scared?

No it doesn't...just be sure that you are well lubed and he is gentle...don't be scared...this is a great thing!

saruman: With lots of access to sex and marriage both, in books and on line, you should be able to be informed. You will NOT be hurt ... guaranteed ! The girl may feel some pain ... but have HER do the pushing because SHE can feel what her own body can tolerate. This is normal for the first time. Go s-l-o-w with her. Remember; the biggest sex "gland" on a girl is her MIND. She needs to feel loved and wanted. Good luck !!!

Well first of all congrats as to still being a virgen. It does hurt a little bit but its the best thing in the world, specially if you are doing things right the way they are supposed to be done. Do not be scared, relax and everything will be ok.

That is the story for most. You might be very good to take the hubby to be to a sex therapist. Unless he knows what he is doing or is going to be extremely gentle with you on your first time, then I would recomend it. Your being scared is only going to make you more tense when the time comes which will make it hurt more(tense, tightened up). Talk to him about it and see what he says.

Scared? Sweetie, don't be scared. It's sex... I think it's so sweet your waiting until your married. Don't worry about. Your first time most likely will hurt... you won't mind you'll be so much in love and sooo happy... No worry yourself. Everything will be wonderful!!!

Best Wishes

It will hurt more if you're scared and tense. Explain to your fiance that you're nervous about it and ask him to be gentle with you. Take a hot bath or have him give you a nice massage beforehand. The more relaxed you are the less likely it'll be painful.

Don't get married because you feel like you have to. You will just wish later that you hadn't done it. And don't be afraid of your first time. Dont think it will hurt, everyone has to go through it.

Sex is not something you should be scared of and you should try talking to your partner about how you feel, i don't think this is enough maybe you need to see a counsellor, good luck!

Ive heard it does,but only for the first time,i understand that it gets better and becomes enjoyable after a while for women.Then again im not a woman so i cant tell you.

I am a guy so I cannot tell you. I wanted to say congrats on the wedding and saving yourself for you wedding night

It's a beautiful and wonderful thing to share with the one you love...I can't speak for females...but to share that moment of intimacy with the one you love...to explore each others bodies...I promise if you just give yourself to him and he does the same for you it will be very special...