~*Wedding Song: Our tastes vary (me-jazz, him-rap!) How can we find a happy medium for a song to dance to*~?

My husband and I danced to a John Cougar Melloncamp song that is pretty much impossible to dance to. But we managed. It was a song that we both liked and thought of each other everytime it was on. Your "dance" doesn't have to be a slow sappy song. It should mean something to the two of you. Our other song we like was "Is this Love" by Bob Marley. Again, a song that meant something to us...a song we first both danced to another wedding. Just be happy with the song and don't just settle for something because it's a slow love song.

First of all, I think it would be kind of tacky to have a rap song as your first dance together, even if he does like rap, because not too many rap songs have very romantic lyrics. You should get him to listen to "At Last" by Etta James- it's a classic, very jazzy and romantic without being sappy, and she really pours her soul into singing it, which is not the least bit boring. Compromise by telling him there will be plenty of rap songs played during the reception that the two of you can dance to.

Good luck! Does he really think rap's appropriate? Wow...

Well, we danced to Kissing You by Des'ree (Romeo and Juliet soundtrack). It's very soulful and might be a happy medium for you both.

Otherwise, I'd go with a jazz tune. Something sung by Billie Holliday.

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I Do Lyrics

by Boyz II Men

its a great song its slow yet not and not really rap

lyrics (u'd have to hear it though its awsome)

[Verse One - Nate]

I'm telling the world

Here and now

That I'm gonna love you and love you

I take this vow yeeaah

You captured my heart

So long ago

Still there are some critical things

That you should know

Yeeaah yeaah yeah

[Chorus]

Do I give all I am

To be now and forever you man

Do I take you to be

Without question the woman for me

Do I promise you

I Do

Do I promise you

I do, I do

[Verse Two - Shawn]

This love has been worth waiting for

Cause love doesn't matter to me..hiieee

If it's not yours

As we become one

Through and through uuohhh

I dedicate all my life

To loving you...ouuhh

Yeah yeaah yeah

[Chorus]

Do I give all I am (all I am)

To be now and forever you man

Do I take you to be

Without question the woman for me (the woman for me)

Do I promise you (uohh oehhh)

I Do (I...do)

Do I promise you

I do, I do

[Bridge - Wanya]

To have and to hold

While passions unfold

I promise a life you won't regret

For better or worse

No one can reverse the way that I've felt since we met You ain't seen nothing yet

[Chorus]

Do do I give all I am (all I am)

To be now and forever your man (now and forever)

Do I take (do I take) you to be (take you to be)

With out question the woman for me (the woman for meee I swear)

Do do I swear all my life (all my life)

We'll be happy as husband and wife (husband and wife)

Do I promise you (promise I)

Do I promise you (promise you baby)

Do I promise you (ooehh eaoouhhh)

I Do (do ooehhoehhh)

Do I promise you

I do, I do

I do eehh

I do

I ieeehhh do

I do

Do ouehhh

I do

I'm telling I'm telling I'm telling I'm telling I'm telling the world yeah

Telling the world-oohhh yeah

I do

I iieeeeeehhh

I do I do

I do

I ieehh do

Yeah yeah yeah yeah

Do I yeaah

I do baby

I'm gonna marry you

I know it's not jazz or rap, but for my wedding we're gonna dance to Mary J. Blidge's "Be without You". It's nice upbeat with just the right amount of soul. And I could just cry when she says, "Ladies let him know he's got your Love"!!!!!!

Go on Youtube.com, and in the search box type in "I'm your Angel" you should get this song by R. Kelly and Celine Dion. It is such a beautiful song! Or you could do the Titanic song! I don't know these are your taste but I love the song "I'm your Angel" and one day It is gonna be the first song on me planner!

There are tons of rap songs that sample jazz records.Might want to consider that.Best of luck.

How about a classic, slow song from the 50's or 60's? Very retro- everybody can identify with it, it'll bring back memories with your older guests and maybe even start a tradition with you and your man!