Is it racist if a white girl isnt attracted to black guys? Or even repulsed by them?

No. Women have all sorts of preference such as height, hair color, etc. What that encounter does show is that the person who hit on your wife likes to play the victim. Hiding behind your race, and pretending that you're discriminated against is really pathetic.

I don't think it's racist if a girl is not attracted to a boy because of his looks, no matter the race of either. I don't think you have much choice of who you are attracted to, it's too ingrained in your head I think. But if she is actually repulsed by all guys of that race, that seems a bit racist...

If she is visually repulsed by them to the point where she makes a face when she see's them or makes an extreme attempt to avoid contact with them, then that is racist. Other than that no, not being attracted to a race doesn't constitute as racism.

With whom we choose to have relationship with is not about racism. I may be repulsed by people of my own race for whatever reason - for instance, I am totally repulsed by people who have poor hygiene or are abusive.

What amounts to racism is when you simply hate people of another race for no reason other than they are of that race. If her desire not to have a relationship with another person is based on her personal preference that is fine, but if it also leads to hatred for the race in general, then she is a racist.

Yeah, and it's nosist for a woman not to be attracted to a guy with a big nose. It's also cognitivist for a woman not to be attracted to a stupid person. It's also sexist for a lesbian to only like females.

nope not in the slightness bit racist it is a matter of preference that is all some like red heads some dint some black women some not just one more factor in the facts of life

Nooooooo. I'm mixed with white and black and I'm more attracted to white guys. I don't know why I just am. And I'm not saying black guys are ugly, I've seen some cute ones. You can't change who your attracted to. That's just how you are..... It is NOT racist....

I would say, "not" if she just isn't attracted to him, but I would say if she is repulsed by all black men as opposed to a specific black man, then there is probably some racial issues involved.

How can that be racist? Should I have to force myself to be in a relationship with someone I am not attracted to simply to be politically correct? Absolutely not.

Racist is that who hates others for what they look like. It has nothing to do with attraction.