Am I evil?

The messing around is evil,The party was sneaky. I can see where you were coming from...jealous...but at the same time you kept yourself away from him.

The thing is...you do not know what happens behind closed doors between them and there is a difference between getting to know someone at work and in their personal life.Sure he might be great with you at work and even by yourselfs and make you feel special when yous are by yourself but how is he in a serious relationship.

You know nothing about her therefore it is hard to judge,he maybe completely different and she maybe going through rough times and holding on hope or maybe there is nothing as far as she knows and everything is perfect.

But if he is cheating on her to be with you does not mean he wants more then just that from you along with once a cheater always a cheater.Sure you have no one to answer to but would you want it to be you this is happening to. I think he just wants his cake and eat it too.We all know that does not happen.

You need to seriously think about the situation and see what is going on.

If he was showing nervousness,then he was also showing a sign he somewhat cares about her and does not want to lose her as it should of told you something at the same time as he does not want to be found out.

I think you should stop the messing around and save yourself as it seems that you may be in a fairytale thinking perhaps there is a chance he will be with you.Cheaters do not work like that.

Find someone that will bring you as much joy he does but that will respect and accept you for you at the same time.If you keep holding on to something that is not you will miss out on real thing.

Good luck

Most definitely, but you should take comfort in the fact that you are evil in a most entertaining way. I don't think you owe anything to anyone in this bizarre love triangle but you might want to be careful not to get too serious with this co-worker as he appears to have some honesty issues. However, if this is just a f**k buddy, I guess it's all good.

Yes, you're evil. Here's why... #1. You are allowing this man to cheat on his girlfriend. How would you feel if you were her? What if you were in love with this great guy who said he was in love with you too and then you found out that the girl who invited you to dance with her at a Christmas Party is actually your BF's makeout buddy? Shame on you. Have some respect for yourself and have some for her! She doesn't deserve that!

#2. The childish games are even worse. Grow up.

because you are in love with a man that has a gf doesn't make you evil but if it was meant for you and him to be together than the time will come if he loves you like you love him than you will have to wait for that time and also think about this ok he is with her and he is messing around with you how do you know that he is not going to mess around on you with someone else don't rush love it will happpen if it is meant to be

Yes you are... First you shouldn't be messing around with a guy that has a girlfriend...thats wrong...evil #1

And second, keeping them apart during the Christmas party is wrong...maybe they wanted a romantic fun time and you spoiled it..evil #2

Why can't you just get your own man...why do you have to take someone else's...evil #3

He's not any better either... you both deserve each other...

No just a bit jealous and you did the right thing by not hurting her, especially since you know where you stand and he has been honest with you,

Plus you have to work with him everyday.

God i feel for you,

Its tough, I wish you could get over him and find someone new.

Good luck Sweetie.

Meg

The fact that you are screwing another woman's man makes you evil, forget about the fact that you were trying to keep them apart at a party. Trying to keep them apart at the party isn't evil so much as pathetic.

Find a guy of your own and stop poaching on other women's territory.

At least they're not married - see it could be worse. I wouldn't continue it. And I definitely wouldn't want a deep, long term relationship with him. He'd do it to you to, the first chance he gets. You're half evil.

I definitely think that is evil. How could you look the girfriend in the face after you are sleeping with her man? If he's doing it to her he will deifinitely do it you and probably worse because he doesnt have alot of respect for you from I hear.

No, If he was serious then he wasn't involving with you. You were crazy not him. So you did what was natural. If he was serious about his girlfriend then he wasn't letting you come closer as it come to mess. And its good for other girl to know that how honest is he.