i need a woman's point of view?

I'm sure sex is important to her, just not the most important thing!! If you put too much effort into trying to get it, she won't want it. Talk to her about it more. She may be willing to do some of the sexual things you want. Don't rush her into wanting to do it all. Ease her into the hot porn. It may be too much all at once. Maybe watch a porn video with her to get her reaction and ideas. Maybe she has some better ones!! I would rather give myself as a gift than a material object. Good Luck!

It sounds like there is a bigger issue here if sex is important to you and it's not to your girlfriend then im not sure how it is going to work out in the long run....any healthy relationship needs a good balance between phsyically and emotional..and while sex should not be all that the relationship is about it does have it's place and it is important. I think that you should explain to your girlfriend you need for more intamcy once and awhile...give her some compliements maybe she is just really insecure..set the mood and see what happens. Good Luck

I am 52 and my hubby of 10 years is 43 if thats what he wanted for his birthday I would be very happy to give it to him , he is not into it like I am. Tell her for your birthday to get a motel room so its like a vacation, and then a hot tub in the room and get naked and say give my Birthday present, then it will be something different for her too, so she can have fun

Well ,after a year you should somewhat know each other.if my man ask me after all that time i would think he's been with another woman.i would let that question pass,only if you really care about her.what would you do if she asked you out of the blue? you need to forget it,or find another partner,,,she's going to go off on you,,,i promise

if your not satisfied with her why you'll still together?sounds like your not happy .

As long as you want this "porn star love making" with her, I don't think you would be wrong to ask. Good luck & have fun!!! Happy Birthday!!

Mary

Excite her to the maximum and you will get what you want even without asking for..start slowly,surly and gradually reach the level of extreme pleasure

I would watch how you told her.I wouldn't like to be asked to have porn sex.I would feel cheap.

I think you should realize that she is reaching menopause.

sit her down and tell her exactly what you told me!!!