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What turns you on more woman-rank them? A sense of humour?Smart guys?Rich guys?Good looking guys?reg/nice guy

I want to change my char to be more likable

Update:

thanks ladies...yap being yourself and being confident - i.e u like the way u are..and walk the talk...hmm...something i think i can show more off...as i like being myself..but my other half just seems to want more..if u know what i mean..one more thing how abt sex appeal..being able to please a woman in bed...basically great sex!how would you rate that in the list?

Update 2:

batraylover : wow thanks for that refreshing dose of reality...then what do i do...i am myself most of the time..but my wife isn't into "me" any longer....maybe i can be more me...but ya...i didn't of things loyalty and honesty....hmm...i guess i could be more honest...sometimes when i go for a drink with my buddies i tell her it's something else...;)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Well your post alone turns me off "I want to change my character to be more likable". If you are trying to pretend to be something you are not, or change your lifestyle, or your character just so more people will like you, then you are dealing with a self esteem issue more than anything else. I know that sounds harsh, but there is someone out there for everyone, and it's finding that person that is all a part of the relationship journey. You can't pretend to be funny, pretend to be good looking, or pretend to be a regular or nice guy if you are not really any of those things. You can get in shape to look good, get your hair done, and other things to change your physical apperance, but if you are still a jerk on the inside, then you will always be a jerk, even if you look good on the outside. I'm not saying that people can't change, what I am saying instead is that people have to want to change for themselves, and not for the sake of other people, for the sake of becoming more likable, or for any other reason.

    Now, to answer your question.

    Loyalty and honesty, those come first in my book.

    Intelligence is important, especially in a world where what you know can make or break you.

    A sense of humor is important, but not neccessary.

    Money doesn't mean a thing.

    Good looks don't mean a thing, it's what's on the inside that counts.

    Being "regular" isn't all it's cracked up to be, because the definition of "normal" in our society is becoming more and more twisted each and every year.

    So be yourself, and if people don't like you, then you are hanging out with the wrong people. Don't try to be something you are not, or do things that you don't like to do just to become more likable. Instead, find people who share your interests, or who like the person you are today, and not the person you could be if you were to change just for other people.

  • 1 decade ago

    Guys who can be themselves. No one like someone to pretend to be someone who he is not. You dont need to change your char to be likeable, you need to find someone who likes you for who you are. A sense of humour is always valuable and like the regular nice guy with a nice smile and twinkle in his eye who likes to have fun. The other stuff is not as important but he should have a goal to at least work and not use people to get what he wants.

  • 1 decade ago

    a great personality. easy to talk to, confidence, a good sense of humor, things like that. looks dont matter to me, its what is on the inside that counts. 1. reg/nice guy, 2. a sense of humor, 3. smart guys, 4. good looking guys, 5. rich guys

  • 1 decade ago

    OK, on a scale of 1-5 (5 being the most important to me) this is how I would rank the following:

    A sense of humour ~ 5

    Smart guys ~ 4

    Rich guys ~2

    Good looking guys ~3

    reg/nice guy ~ 5

    Don't change yourself, just be more confident in who you are!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Regular nice guys who don't have to show off are the best b/c it's very sexy when a man just be's himself. I hate very goodlooking guys who walk around like they are God's gift to the earth and have even turned down a few for dates b/c of their cockiness. Just be yourself and you won't have any trouble with the ladies. Good Luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    well, i think a sense of humor is the best thing, then smartness(a guy who loves to show his smarts, but not coming off too smart like a nerd, is very sexy), good looking, then rich guys...well that is for ur answer but it really depends on wat u r looking for...if u r funloving, you want a humorous spontaneous guy, if u r a sweet shy type of person, you want a person laid back and a total romantic, if u r both kinds and want an intellectual side, smartness and intectaullity is the key ....but the most important thing that turns me on is honesty, but if ur too honest, that is not good.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should be yourself...Develope your self confidence. BE YOURSELF. Hey...to be honest...although i'm not so good-looking, a rich guy, s smart guy, but still many women who knows me get attracted to me coz i'm myself....! This is no joke man....

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    Once Again! BE YOURSELF DUDE! You really need to seek a professional advice for this if you cant BE YOURSELF.

  • Brandy
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Sense of humor. You can't really love someone who never makes you laugh.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    1. Has blue eyes. ON 2. Has brown hair. ON 3. Has fair to medium skin. ON 4. Wears T-shirts. ON 5. Has a little acne. OFF 6. Is a little chubby. OFF 7. Is intelligent. ON 8. Is good at math. ON 9. Has a good sense of humor. ON 10. Is a nice guy. ON 11. Is athletic. ON 12. Plays video games. ON 13. Believes in personality over looks. ON 14. Is a virgin. OFF 15. Is loyal. ON 16. Respects others. ON 17. Doesn't care what others think of him. ON 18. Listens. ON 19. Wants to have fun. ON 20. Would do anything for his girlfriend. ON 21. Is sociable. ON 22. Can be awkward at times. OFF 23. Loves to party. ON 24. Not a good dancer. ON 25. Doesn't do drugs. OFF 26. Cares. ON 27. Is going to college. ON 28. Knows CPR. ON 29. Knows how to cook. OFF 30. Can be sensitive. ON/OFF HAS LIMITS 31. Is a Christian. IDC. 32. Loosely interprets the Bible. IDC. 33. Is 5 feet 9 inches. ON 34. Weighs 203 lbs. OFF 35. Dislikes the majority of rap music. ON 36. Is lazy when it comes to homework and housework. ON 37. Is not very good at organization. ON 38. Doesn't take many things seriously. OFF 39. Is clumsy. OFF

  • 1 decade ago

    INTELLIGENCE (FUN TO TALK TO, MAKES YOU LAUGH, FUNNY TID BIDS OF INFORMATION)

    OVERALL PERSONA

    DEF SENSE OF HUMOR.

    C O N F I D E N C E IN YOURSELF

    LOOKS MEAN NOTHING UNLESS YOU HAVE THESE!

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