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What to do about someone who hounds for sex?
I have been with my man for over 10 years but he's driving me away by hounding me for sex all the time. When I mean all the time, I mean every effin hour we're around each other. I'm starting to feel stupid because the only real conversations we have is when there is a commercial break and he says something to me about sex. He's becoming flat out rude about it and today I told him I'm fed up and want some peace and quiet, it's Sunday for god's sake. This is a 40 year old man and he should have more respect than to do this to me. He's not deprived. I think he does it sometimes because he knows it gets under my skin and pisses me off.
HELP!!
Oh, and he swears he can't "take care of himself". I've know he never has before because he's a prude about touching it in that way. I thought all guy's do, but not him!!
2 Answers
- casurfwatcherLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well, you can always pop-in at his office and "grope" him with a lot of sex talk when its inconvenient for him ... odds are he's been hearing from the "boys" at the office about their conquests and is trying to keep up .... timing is always important and a smart man "woos" his lady ...
Seriously though, its not about the sex, most women love to be desired ... its about the approach and lack of respect, as you say"..he should have more RESPECT than to DO this TO me.."
Spouses want to MAKE LOVE WITH ... not TO each other ... DOING TO or TAKING FROM do not imply any kind of loving or sharing ... its all about perspective and respect. ... Buy yourselves a copy of "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" and read it ... you BOTH may learn something about each other .... communication is key and you aren't on the same planet.
it may also be that he is experiencing "rejections" at work ... passed over on projects, ideas being shot down, etc, and he is feeling a bit deflated in his ego. Take my advice and screw his brains out big time .... it will gve his self confidence a big boost.
If you dont, eventually he will find someone who will and he will join the ranks of those "my wife doesn't understand me" bachelors ...
- 1 decade ago
My husband is the same way he make sexual comments all the time. I just tell him he's not right and laugh at him of course this probably won't work for u, I'm not telling u to go that path. all I can tell u is there are a lot of us out there.
