somebody PLEASE HELP me, i DESPERATELY need to go back in time!?

I'm sorry you can't change the past whats done is done. Who knows it might be for the better you just got to tale one step at a time. If you need some advice Email me.

I'm an old lady now but I remember back in January 1971 being in a place that sounds like where you are.. It is not gonna help you feel much different now no matter what anyone says or does..but grieving is a process to help you heal. Don't give up yet...This short life here is about more than we have the capacity to understand. Believe it or not, you just helped me right when I needed it.....& just by being here so sad, You made me remember what I once thought I needed to change, or forget... Think what you can do on a good day?

T. S. Elliot wrote:

"We shall not cease from exploration; & in the end of all our exploring will be to arrive where we started & know the place for the first time." Hang in there

Whoa! You cannot change that point in time. You cannot go back. I have no idea what kind of choice you made, but one bad decision does not ruin a whole life - unless you ended up in prison for life. Even that can be turned into something positive.

Why not give more info about the decision and why you made the wrong choice. I'll bet there are others who have lived through similar situations.

Everyone makes a back decision at one time or another. Myself? I have made so many wrong choices.Some not so serious, some so bad I can never forget, some that ruined or wasted many years of my life. I survived every one of them.

I regret loosing years I cannot get back, but life goes on and better times came along.

It can get better and I bet someone here can help. Give us a chance.

Escaping from reality will even make things worse. Be woman or man enough to face the consequences of your actions.There is still time to be happy. It is not the end of the world. Everything happens for a reason. What happened to you was not coincidence. Think of it as a learning phase of your life and go on from there. Correct whatever you can now and live with what you cannot. In the end, it will make you stronger and a woman of character to be able to do this. Wouldn't you be proud of yourself when you are able to wake up from the ashes like a rising phoenix? Even your grand kids will be amazed at your straight and will consider you their hero. Think of other people aside from yourself. Life is about helping others and being of service and source of strength for them. Come out of our shell, forget about yourself and be happy.

TIME TRAVEL IS NOT POSSIBLE. EVER. THE END.

Maybe if you were a bit more specific, people could offer you advice on what to do NOW, not THEN. We all have to live with the choices we make, all of us. It's part of the human condition.

With every difficulty, there is ease.

You can't go back in time, but you have to have the courage to face the problem now.

Unfortunately, you can't. You've gotta live with the hand you're dealt.