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My ex keeps drunk dialing...?
Just wondering what goes through someone's head when they drunk dial. My ex seems to do this often the other night she called 4 times in 2 hours and left 4 messages. I just dont answer because she is too cowardly to call when she is sober. I am not a big drinker so I dont get the concept. I am wondering if she misses me and maybe wants to reconcile or is she just drunk and cant control herself. We went out for 2 and a half years and she broke up with me and has new bf. Every time I go no contact on her this is what happens. I ended up hooking up with her one night when she has this bf. It was stupid to do but not I am just trying to cut all contact with her as it is not good for me, but anyways any insight would be helpful. Thanks
haha to clarify my question is what her intentions with these drunk dials.
8 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Sounds like you need to change your number or block hers. Any girl that would hook up wit you while she has a commitment to another man is not an honest person. If she will do it wth you, she will do it to you. If that little voice in your head is telling you that she isn't good for you, you need to listen! Good luck!
- Anonymous5 years ago
I had the same problem. I used to answer until I understood that most men realize how good they had it when they dont have it anymore. He would call almost every monday night after the football games (we used to watch them together), drunk and babbling. First it was about can we get back together, 6 months go by and its can we atleast have sex. Truth is all you can do is let it go to VM or stop giving him the attention he's looking for, If you keep answering the phone or responding (texting) when he call, he will call forever. Remember negative or positive attention is still attention to them.
- 1 decade ago
she feels like she can't talk to you unless she is under the influence. she probably still has feelings for you, and feels guilty for breaking up with you. She is having a hard time moving on with her life, so it's up to you to make the decision. You need to decide how you feel about her, and wether you are willing to try to win her back, or to make things easier for you and her and tell her to knock it off. Cheating is wrong, and if she's willing to cheat with you, chances are she cheated on you. If you really want her to go away, you might just have to be mean to have it get through her head that she can't f*ck with your mind anymore.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Dude, have you ever heard that alcohol is the "truth" serum????
It appears that when she is drunk, her true feelings about you come out. She STILL has somewhat feelings for you but does not want to admit to them. You made it worse by plowing her. Change your number if you do not want this slutt calling you, worse the boyfriend might found out and he will be calling you.
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- Modus OperandiLv 61 decade ago
When you are drunk you have little to no inhibition. I used to drunk dial my ex-girlfriends because I still had feelings for them and was too lame to tell them.
- 1 decade ago
If you have somewhere you can write to her at, I would tell her you'd like to cut contact with her. That way you can get your point across while she's not drunk.
- rich2481Lv 71 decade ago
she probably has a phone fetish like my ex did, used to get drunk and talk on phone for hours and hours,, got to the point all her friends stopped answering their phones
