Maturity issue? or am I still...?

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I know this 15 year old girl who has some issues of sorts. she keeps going back and forth to this guy she liked or still likes. I'm going to only say she had a 'significant' relationship with him. anyway, they broke up and now she's with a previous ex who she now loves, or says she does. I'm wondering if I should say something to her, it seems problamatic for her to keep doing this to herself, going for the guy who she thought she'd marry, or going for the guy who she only used before. (in that way, yes.)

Being self-doubting as I tend to be, I'm wondering if I have any feelings for her that transfer into this and want to see her with me instead of going to the same guy (and having problems) or chasing an old one (in what seems to be a spontaneous transfer of affection). 

Should I talk to her or something or should I just let her mature on her own and realize her own mistakes? or am I just going crazy?

soulguy85 · Accepted Answer

You hit the nail squarely on the head.  "Just let her mature on her own and realize her own mistakes."

You seem to be intrigued with her and have developed some feelings for this gal but I think she'd break your heart.  She use you for a confident or a shrink.  Find a gal that likes you for you.

T.M.Y. · Answer

HELLO she's just 15, so yeah, she's being immature, because she is 15!  She's thinking of marrying someone that young?  Yeah, typical 15 year old.  Everything she's doing is normal.  I'm sure you are equally immature, since you say you're INTERESTED in a girl who can't settle on one guy.  You're both typical teenagers.  Hopefully, you'll both grow out of it.  But there are a few who never do.

sarahbarah! · Answer

If you really care about her, you should definitely say something. She's really hurting herself by doing what she's doing. And if you have feelings for her, or think you do you should probably talk to her about it. You may just be getting jealous, and that's why you think she's doing something wrong. Just try to evaluate how you're really feeling about all of this. Hope this helps! :)

starsperhaps · Answer

Let her mature on her own, because it's always better to learn on your own.  If you do have feelings for her? I would tell her that.

Rocky · Answer

If it has anything to do with females its the latter part of your question, you're just going crazy

? · Answer

As her friend, you need to tell her about this. She may not listen to you, but you need to tell her anyway, regardless of if your personal feelings are coming into play.

Anonymous · Answer

Why do you care? Seems like you care so just try and be friends and see if she likes you.

cyclgrrl · Answer

I hate to be the one to break the news to you, bud...

(Hey, Nurse Ratchett! Ssshhhh! Got that white coat ready?)

 ;-p

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