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long over b/t me and an ex but my mind still wonders?

When i was 12, I met my best friend. Thing between the 2 of us grew slowly and strongly. When i was 15, his "new" adoptive parents didnt approve of me and reported him to the police. He was arrested and I've never heard from him again. My mind still wonders where he is and what hes doing and does he hate me for letting his adoptive parents find out about us. I just dont understand why even after almost 7 years i still find myself thinking about him everyday. Ive tried to find him on the net but no luck. I've moved on but the "what if's" still come to mind frequently. Has anyone else ever had this happen to them? Have you ever lost the love of your life and still think about them years later? No sarcastic comments necessary. You will be reported.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Yes.

    Its the perfect mystery love. The fantasy is wonderful and beautiful. Reality is if it was perfect for him you would have heard from him again. You didn`t, so he didn`t feel the same way. He was using you.

    Sorry but you are better off without him. Your guy went to jail and most probably has gone to jail since again. He has left a string of young naive weeping women behind him where ever he has gone. Now find that REAL guy that can`t live without you forever and ever.

    Linda P. was the love of my life. My parents said stay away she`s no good and were so happy when she moved. Yrs later I looked her up. REALITY!! Over sized, Beer guzzling, smelly, foul mouthed, twice divorced, child beater with a filthy house was what I found. Thank you God for taking her away from me and giving my real Love.

    good question

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    When I was in 5th grade, there was a boy whom was my best friend. He was only staying in the area temporarily because his dad was in the military. We are still teenagers so he still lives with his parents, so I know he is still constantly moving, and I think it would be impossible to locate him. I found his dad and mom on people search, I tried mailing a letter and calling his house phone. but the number was disconnected, and the mail got bounced. Sometimes I wonder if he thinks about me as much as I think about him, or even at all..

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