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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

im really confused!!!!!!!!tell me what to do!!?

i really like this guy and he likes me too but today he told me that he cheated on his last girlfriend 3 different times... and they were going out for years. so i dunno if it will be worth my while going out with him because i dont want him to cheat on me. his last girlfriend never found out either.

Update:

summer, i am not going out with him. im talking about his previous girlfriend.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    doesn't sound too promising, find someone else to like, this guy has a habit of cheating and if he did it to his ex then he will do the same thing to you, there are alot of available guys out there who you wont have to bother worrying about if they will cheat on you at any point and time within a relationship...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Oh wow, that sucks.

    If I were told that by a guy I liked, I seriously wouldn't go for him anymore just because I believe in that saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." I don't like those wanna-be player guys.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he wasn't confiding in you, he was warning you. you should be focused on the psychology of why he would mention such a thing to you. do not get it in your head that this guy likes and respects you so much that he's willing to sacrifice a good relationship because he might not be good enough or loyal enough - he's dealing himself a future get out of jail free card.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Why are you confused? He cheated on you 3 times! Dump him and wake up girl! this is the 21st century

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  • 1 decade ago

    He was being honest. Now its you to up to use this information. If you feel like he cant be trusted move on. You dont have years invested with this man.

  • 5 years ago

    Like Gina, i'm Filipino and that i probable have Spanish blood in me and that i'm a million/8 chinese language, yet i in my view evaluate myself all Filipino via fact i don't be attentive to any chinese language family contributors (my super-grandpa is finished chinese language and he went to the Philippines and married my super-grandma, hence my grandpa is 0.5 chinese language, yet he grew to become into no longer uncovered to chinese language custom). i'm only rather linked to Filipino custom.

  • 1 decade ago

    This guy is a really bad bet.

    Unless he knows that what he did is really wrong and unacceptable he'll keep on doing it.

    And it seems like he's really good at it.

    If it were me...I'd pass.

  • 1 decade ago

    People can change...perhaps he's being honest with you because he wants to have an honest relationship! If he's given you reason to be suspicious, be suspicious, if not, RELAX & enjoy life!

  • 1 decade ago

    i agree with you. if you guys start to date and things get really involved, then it will hurt more if he were to cheat on you. but if you really want to date him, then let him know that if he ever cheats on you, it's over.

  • G-BOY
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Dont have regrets. If u like him then give it a chance, u neva know. U dont know what they're relationship was like.

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