can anyone recommend a song for my son and i to dance to at his wedding?

Harry Connick Jr.'s "Wink and A Smile."

I got these from www.customweddingsolutions.com. They have a free song guide for weddings. They list a bunch more. You might want to check it out.

The First Lady in My Life. Paul Todd

A Song for Mama. Boyz II Men

A Song for My Son. Mikki Viereck

What a Wonderful World. Louis Armstrong

Beautiful In My Eyes. Joshua Kadison

A Smile Like Yours. Natalie Cole

Memories. Elvis Presley

At my sister's wedding, the mother/son dance and father/daughter dance were at the same time, so guests wouldn't get bored just watching other people dance. They selected "In My Life," by The Beatles.

Congratulations on your son's wedding!

My hubby danced to "Have I told you lately that I love you" it wasn't the Rod Stuart version though, and I have no idea who it was by. But ask your DJ, he'll know. One thing that they did at a wedding we just went to was start the dance with just the bride/father, mother/son dances then ask all the mothers and the sons in the crowd to join them. I thought this was really nice, and it made for some great photos!

Wind Beneath my Wings is a good one but Phil Vassar has a new song out "The Woman in My Life." The first time I heard it I thought it would be a great Mother/Son wedding song...Check it out.

My husband and mother danced to "wind Beneath My Wings" by Bette Midler and it was beautiful.

"Wind Beneath My Wings" by Bette Midler. Congratulations and Best Wishes.

Mama by Boyz II Men

My husband danced to "What a Wonderful World" with his mother.

Here's a whole list of ideas!

http://www.wedalert.com/songs/motherson/index.asp