Do I change the last name or stick to my plan?

I would guess that after 24 years it is part of your identity and that is why you are having a problem. Plus you probably have some leftover hurt/anger at your ex and you don't want to give your new hubby the same power over you and the name issue is where it is occuring.

I can't say that I blame the guy, the last name is your ex's and your kids, but it really is not yours, it has no bearing on your geneology, just your kids.

IF I were in your shoes I would take his name, or postpone the wedding and go get some counseling to find the real reasons you are hanging on to a past that was an illusion.

Good luck to you.

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okay...i definitely think he's maybe being a bit too insane about it...but, then again, you need to consider this is the kind of guy you are marrying. obviously someone old fashined. but...i see his point too. why WOULD you want to keep the name?

Hyphenate them, you should have that right. Some careers are built on name recognition. If he cannot understand this than he does not deserve you.

well,I think you should use both names, just tell your new husband that it doesn't mean anything and its not like your cheating on him with your ex.He's gay!