Looking for a forum to talk with other women whose husbands work in Iraq?

Hello! I'm looking for somewhere a little more private to chat/email with other wives who are here in the States while their husbands are either on deployment or working voluntarily in Iraq/Afghanistan. I'd love to share stories and see how it is that you cope with things on a day to day basis, whether it's raising children, answering questions from friends and family, dealing with the confusion that sets in when he's home on leave, thinking about having another child... etc. If you are interested, please drop me a line or if you know of a forum that deals with this topic, please let me know. Thanks a lot!