when you specificly tells you spouse not to delete receive/sent messages yet he still does it.what does it say

You're an irritating, disgusting cow. Stop checking up and being paranoid, and he might stop. On the other hand, keep your eye out for tax deductions for out-of-state condos.

He doesn't like you checking up on him. Maybe he has something to hide or maybe he is just doing it on principle.

Hiding something?

And you TELL your spouse what to do? No wonder they sneak...

your spouse is hding something from you, but don't assume the worst, they could be planning a surprise or something for you.

Maybe he doesn't like following orders, maybe he doesn't like your Army of one. Maybe he's doing it just because you told him not to.

I guess he has skeleton in the closet...