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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

non virgin guys want to marry virgins?

ok so why the hell do guys who have been sleeping around and have had sex with like 30 women, want to marry virgins?

they don't even deserve to be with virgins. i mean, first, the guy have to date the virgin, and what's the point... guys always force the virgins to lose it before marriage anyway. and what happens if they break up after he took his virginity and there's no marriage?

don't guys ever feel bad for being so selfish?

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  • Ebby
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    We do no speak of men as virgin, but experienced or not. Men have no h***m to break, but women do. Its the problem of language usage.

    Yes, both experienced and non-experienced men, generally, like to marry virgin girls! It makes them feel that no one else, but them, had sexual entercouse with the girl. Hypocracy, both on the part of many men and our societies! Nothing else.

    All the best!/

  • 1 decade ago

    Why do you think i am always preaching don't give it away so easy. This is just the way guys are. If they can get it there going to take it. But most guys know that if they can get it then someone else has most likely been there first and most likely someone will be there after them. That is just the way experienced guys look at it. So when they think they might want to marry a woman the don't want one that has slept with the whole foot ball team. They want 1 they can trust not to want to jump in the neighbors bed before he can get around the corner to the bus stop. Guys don't force a woman to do a cotton picking thing they just look for the easy ones that are either weak minded or the ones that dress provocatively and go for it. Those are the ones that pose no challenge . But when they come across one that is a challenge that is the one that will make them want to hang around.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Actually this is some BAD guy's mentality. They do this because they enjoy doing it & they don't think of others who r harmed by it. They just see their own sake ok & any guy had sex with anygirl is a big thing 4 the guy means its like a prize 4 the guy & any girl who has slept with a guy before their marriage is like their eizzet is taken away by somebody & some stupid guys don't marry them. This is what is socially acceptable. & which good & smart people should not follow.

    Source(s): My self
  • 1 decade ago

    It's fair game for guys. Guys typically want sex more than girls do. They just have more of a sex drive. They want easy girls for sex and then a serious one who waited for marriage.

    Since women don't crave sex as bad as men do (unless they're slutty), she's kind of being twice the slut the guy is when she sleeps with him. She doesn't need it as bad. It could be that she was tricked by him or something but that's just one more reason to wait until you're sure it's the right guy.

    It can sound unfair, but just remember who has the drive! It's easier to forgive a guy for sleeping around than a girl. Plus if she's been with a lot before marriage, she'll probably be disloyal after marriage too.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Why do so many women fall for it ? its always the way - you fall for the jerk than wonder why he took your virginity and rode of like that ! and why couldn't he change the Harley for a mazda ! boohoo, fools !

  • 1 decade ago

    depends on the guy, not all guys are like that, but i wont lie there are alot of jerks out there

  • Jim
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Sorry, but guys are hardwired to need sex. It's not a wish or whim. It's more like getting thirsty and need to drink. Kick in the testosterone, and now comes the competing for women and success.

    I think a virgin is almost a myth anymore, no one really bemoaned by most of manhood.

  • 1 decade ago

    Younger guys want that virginity for whatever reason. Personally i've never wanted a virgin. When i want sex i want the woman to have some experience behind her before we do it. I'm not into being the "teacher" of how to do it.

    Younger men embark on some form of conquest and think it's cool when they take that virginity. That's ok with me, I don't mind waiting until the woman gets some experience behind her, cause i'm going to enjoy the sex a whole lot better than those other guys before me.

    Another reason i won't do a virgin is it would be a waste of my time, I'm to large for a woman on her first time. She would need stitches for sure.

  • 1 decade ago

    YES, it is a vicious cycle. I doubt it will end anytime soon either.

  • 1 decade ago

    Did the so called VIRGIN GIRLS stayed their house before marriage in the first place??????????!

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