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beautywarrior_5
beautywarrior_5 asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

i havn't seen my ex in a year now he's calling after finding out i'm with sum1, why does guys do that?

yeah, we do have a child together but he said that he doesn't want to be involved in my childs life. besides he has another child after mine, they are six months apart. now he's wants to find us. i gave him two chances, one to fix the relationship, no, and other to see if he wanted to be there for the baby's birth, no he cared for himself. now he's not really into his other child but now his first, ours. he found out that i'm ingaged and he's calling under blocked calls. saying nothing then hanging up. why do guys have to do that when the other had moved on? i mean trying to prevent them to be happy or do they just miss the other one? likei haven't ever been unfaithful to the ex of mine.

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  • Angel
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    He feels bad because you have moved on and don't rely on him anymore. Some men (not all) get pissed off when their ex is not hung up on them anymore. It makes them feel like a big man.

    If he doesn't want anything to do with your childs life then that is his problem. You seem to have found happiness with a new man so don't worry about your ex.

    Don't answer his calls or talk to him at all. If he didn't want to be a part of your life then, then don't make him a part of your life now.

  • donna_honeycutt47
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Alot of times, its take a person losing something to realise what they had. You are right to move on and be happy. It would only be a repeat performance if you went back to him, and honestly he is probably using the child as a Pawn to get to you and the child will only get hurt. Go Be Happy and to heck with the past!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Some people do the 'if I can't have you, no-one can have you' and try to cause problems in subsequent relationships. How did he get your number? Change your number and don't let him affect your current relationship.

  • dream_harts
    1 decade ago

    He just doesn't want you to be happy, he wants you to stay single incase he cant find anyone else...he's an *******

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